NinsMom wrote:
It seems to me that a lot of the people who post here are also 'gun shy', discouraged, introverted, & are not very self confident. They may think they want a relationship, but it draws them too far out of their comfort zone.
I would argue that a lot of us know what we want, but don't know how to get it.
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That's kind of what I meant by the above statement. We know what we what, but would have difficulty trying to get that. If lacking in confidence, social skills,& fear from past failures might prevent people from trying.[/i]
As far as the rest goes, I know exactly what I'd want in a woman, I could nit-pick and build my perfect, ideal woman, but that's unrealistic. I don't need somebody to be perfect or fit my image of a woman. Settling to me is if I have to think very strongly about something I dislike about a potential partner and forcing myself to overlook it, despite knowing I cannot. I tend not to do that.
07 Mar 2014, 4:54 pm
