Are you embarrassed about your type?

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I'm smart enough not to do that. If I need an excuse I can just tell them that I'm closeted.

embarrassed of my type no. I have a type? o.O

now I don't feel I'm good enough anymore for the women I like and the women I can't like, well that's self explaining.

I was dumb enough to be together with girls I later wouldregret being together with.

My type; tall, masculine, older in a sense (even if he's just older in looks), and will do anything for me. If he doesn't have these traits I won't put up with him. Height is huge though. I don't care how attractive he is... if he doesn't have the height then he will be disregarded. Friendlist forever.... Rare is the man who can change this in me, but it could happen if he's really masculine/protective/hot (but shorter guys don't try usually). Be clean, decent person, and you're good.

I don't care about race, age (20-55), weight, and perhaps even his job.

Am I embarass? No. It's what I want. And what I want is what I get.

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Now, if you want to be my "IDEAL" type. 6'6+, broad shoulders, masculine, and that's about
it

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I dated a short guy, and I had no attraction towards him... I can't change it..

If you were an American male you would be in the majority, or at least close to it. I am actually often embarrassed because I like skinny girls and I live in a country where the overwhelmingly vast majority have at least "a few extra pounds," and where 'real men' like 'real women' who have big butts and huge tits. In fact, it sometimes seems like popular culture, celebrity magazines especially, and peer pressure are constantly attacking skinny women. Truly skinny girls are hard to find anywhere though, even in Japan where I lived for a few years. (The rural school girls playing soccer frightened me with their giant calves! I love long legs and they just had these little stumps.. but I digress.)

At work, in a testosteroned environment, I am constantly queried about how attractive I find some average chick ("average" weight in the USA apparently means "somewhat fluffy") and I'm sure my reaction looks like: "Eww, uh, I mean OHH!" But then again, right now I have a crush on a girl who doesn't fit my "body type" at all, so who knows? I love her voice, which is a turn on for me (unusual voices and accents), and she's very cute (to me. Other guys would probably think that she's super hot with her well endowed chests). I hope we can someday connect and get to know each-other more, even if we're not exactly each-others's type (I'm sure I'm not 100% what she is looking for as I'm average height and skinny). It would be nice if everyone was paired up with their perfect type, but maybe that's too easy and results in mostly superficial relationships. I've been thinking recently that challenges help us grow, so why not here as well?

Tall, skinny, black. Or tall, athletic, and black. I'd never say it in real life because you have better odds when you don't seem interested. I'm not ashamed of it though.

I am definitely a "butt-guy", and I have come to notice that at least here in Germany, this is somewhat of a minority. Most guys I know are into petite and skinny girls that look "cute", I am more into athletic and tall women with preferably a very large butt. It happens rarely that I get so... let's say awestruck about the looks of a woman, but at my gym, since about half a year, there is a new fitness coach, a young black woman that is, if I ever had something like a typ when it comes to looks, precisely that: tall, athletic, stronger facial features and a bottom that is, in proportion to her overall sporty phsyique, just enormous. It somewhat amuses me how often I catch myself looking at her butt, because that is rather new to me. She is also a very nice person and bright, as far as I can tell from the conversations we have regularly.