Page 2 of 3 [ 38 posts ]  Go to page Previous  1, 2, 3  Next

Eureka13
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 1 Nov 2013
Age: 69
Gender: Female
Posts: 1,058
Location: The wilds of Colorado

02 Sep 2014, 5:14 pm

I forgot to add, when I was talking about my gold-digger ex-husband: because I presented one case of a man being a gold-digger, does that mean all men are gold-diggers?



Toy_Soldier
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 17 Jul 2012
Gender: Male
Posts: 3,370

02 Sep 2014, 5:24 pm

Gold Digger with Pharrell's hat.

Image



Roobot
Yellow-bellied Woodpecker
Yellow-bellied Woodpecker

User avatar

Joined: 25 Jun 2014
Gender: Male
Posts: 61

02 Sep 2014, 5:24 pm

Money for being around someone I don't like doesn't cut it.

I'm too selfish to be a gold digger. You only get one life, money is meaningless next to that.



The_Face_of_Boo
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 16 Jun 2010
Age: 44
Gender: Non-binary
Posts: 33,664
Location: Beirut, Lebanon.

02 Sep 2014, 5:27 pm

Standing there for 15 minutes? Something does 't add up.



1401b
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 21 May 2012
Age: 126
Gender: Male
Posts: 1,590

02 Sep 2014, 5:57 pm

Eureka13 wrote:
AlexanderDantes wrote:
LookingLost wrote:
I think that's a massive, massive generalisation, and a harmful one. There are around 7 billion people on this planet, approximately half of which are female, and you're trying to take one woman and use her to suggest that her behaviour is a reflection of the female population in general? In addition to that, you omit to mention anything at all about the possibility that the reverse could take place, with male 'gold-diggers' exploiting women for their money - which presents the idea of gold-digging as a purely female phenomenon, and seems sexist to me - or anything about the same in same-sex relationships.


Well there is another thread stating that many men are rapists and that the majority of rape is committed by men, is it any different from that? There's a difference between wanting a provider and wanting celebrity status, attention and a Maserati.


Reference, please? I know of no thread stating that "many men are rapists," although it is a fact that the overwhelming majority of reported rapes (and other sexual assaults) are committed by men. I myself have posted links to that information.

Why don't we try something different and argue about ageism instead of sexism for a change? Here, I'll start. :lol:

I do see evidence that the current generation (male and female) suffers from entitlement issues. For men, that could manifest as "I deserve to get laid" and for women as "I deserve to be a pampered princess."

Or we could try not being divisive at all.


_________________
(14.01.b) cogito ergo sum confusus


1401b
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 21 May 2012
Age: 126
Gender: Male
Posts: 1,590

02 Sep 2014, 5:59 pm

tarantella64 wrote:
AlexanderDantes wrote:
Gold digger caught on camera, how does it make you feel guys? Are the current generation of women really more celebrity and material obsessed or is it just this one individual?

http://youtu.be/Ve46peMWU5w


Please do not promulgate misogynist stereotypes. Asking for this thread to be moderated.

       ^^one to talk...


_________________
(14.01.b) cogito ergo sum confusus


Roobot
Yellow-bellied Woodpecker
Yellow-bellied Woodpecker

User avatar

Joined: 25 Jun 2014
Gender: Male
Posts: 61

02 Sep 2014, 6:06 pm

just shifting the topic from woman golddiggers to golddiggers in general is enough surely. It's not a bad topic otherwise.

Eureka13 has already done that mostly with the first reply, by talking about an ex husband that was a golddigger.



Meistersinger
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 10 May 2012
Gender: Male
Posts: 3,700
Location: Beautiful(?) West Manchester Township PA

02 Sep 2014, 7:14 pm

Dad always joked "Geez, I wish I were rich rather than good looking (he was neither :wink: ). Anyhow, if he hadn't died of liver cancer 28 years ago, he'd be 79 today (today's his birthday.)



kraftiekortie
Veteran
Veteran

Joined: 4 Feb 2014
Gender: Male
Posts: 87,510
Location: Queens, NYC

02 Sep 2014, 7:19 pm

Was Goldfinger a Gold-digger?



Venger
Veteran
Veteran

Joined: 15 Apr 2008
Gender: Male
Posts: 3,519

02 Sep 2014, 7:23 pm

Eureka13 wrote:
I forgot to add, when I was talking about my gold-digger ex-husband: because I presented one case of a man being a gold-digger, does that mean all men are gold-diggers?


To someone who thinks in extreme(black/white) terms maybe. :roll:

Many women aren't gold-diggers obviously, although when someone is, it usually turns out to be a female.



Last edited by Venger on 02 Sep 2014, 7:26 pm, edited 1 time in total.

aspiemike
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 8 Jul 2012
Gender: Male
Posts: 2,303
Location: Canada

02 Sep 2014, 7:23 pm

tarantella64 wrote:
AlexanderDantes wrote:
Gold digger caught on camera, how does it make you feel guys? Are the current generation of women really more celebrity and material obsessed or is it just this one individual?

http://youtu.be/Ve46peMWU5w


Please do not promulgate misogynist stereotypes. Asking for this thread to be moderated.


Seriously? So noone can talk about what may or may not be gold diggers, but we're allowed to call men who disagree with you "promoters of rape culture?"

which now brings me to the OP and what I saw in the video.

This isn't the best example of gold digging. While we did see the guy in the not so nice looking car getting ignored by the lady, we also saw the rich looking guy get some attention. The rich guy even haggled the lady to get into the car, then he holds up traffic because the girl turned down his friend. A prank nonetheless, but the guy simply is an a**hole. The second video posted by Katiesboyfriend is a better example of gold digging.


_________________
Your Aspie score: 130 of 200
Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 88 of 200
You are very likely an Aspie


starvingartist
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 21 Oct 2008
Age: 46
Gender: Female
Posts: 2,032

02 Sep 2014, 7:29 pm

Venger wrote:
Eureka13 wrote:
I forgot to add, when I was talking about my gold-digger ex-husband: because I presented one case of a man being a gold-digger, does that mean all men are gold-diggers?


To someone who thinks in extreme(black/white) terms maybe. :roll:

Many women aren't gold-diggers obviously, although most gold-diggers are women.


aren't there many "con-artist" men that go after wealthy (and often elderly) women?

men are just as capable of using people for financial gain as women are--in fact i would say that quality is spread pretty evenly among the genders. yay humanity. :lol:



Venger
Veteran
Veteran

Joined: 15 Apr 2008
Gender: Male
Posts: 3,519

02 Sep 2014, 7:35 pm

^^^
Yeah I'm sure those guys make up the 1% or whatever which is still a lot of men. I edited my other post to word it a little better btw.



starvingartist
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 21 Oct 2008
Age: 46
Gender: Female
Posts: 2,032

02 Sep 2014, 7:36 pm

aspiemike wrote:
tarantella64 wrote:
AlexanderDantes wrote:
Gold digger caught on camera, how does it make you feel guys? Are the current generation of women really more celebrity and material obsessed or is it just this one individual?

http://youtu.be/Ve46peMWU5w


Please do not promulgate misogynist stereotypes. Asking for this thread to be moderated.


Seriously? So noone can talk about what may or may not be gold diggers, but we're allowed to call men who disagree with you "promoters of rape culture?"

which now brings me to the OP and what I saw in the video.

This isn't the best example of gold digging. While we did see the guy in the not so nice looking car getting ignored by the lady, we also saw the rich looking guy get some attention. The rich guy even haggled the lady to get into the car, then he holds up traffic because the girl turned down his friend. A prank nonetheless, but the guy simply is an as*hole. The second video posted by Katiesboyfriend is a better example of gold digging.

can we not at least entertain the idea that she might have gotten into the second guys' car because she thought he was cute and wasn't attracted to the first guy? how do we know it was the car that made the difference and not the guy?



starvingartist
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 21 Oct 2008
Age: 46
Gender: Female
Posts: 2,032

02 Sep 2014, 7:41 pm

Venger wrote:
^^^
Yeah I'm sure those guys make up the 1% or whatever which is still a lot of men. I edited my other post to word it a little better btw.


well it still says that someone who manipulates people emotionally for money is more likely to be female, and i just don't think that's true; i think there are just as many mercenary dudes out there.



AlexanderDantes
Deinonychus
Deinonychus

User avatar

Joined: 23 Jun 2014
Age: 36
Gender: Male
Posts: 319

02 Sep 2014, 8:11 pm

starvingartist wrote:
aspiemike wrote:
tarantella64 wrote:
AlexanderDantes wrote:
Gold digger caught on camera, how does it make you feel guys? Are the current generation of women really more celebrity and material obsessed or is it just this one individual?

http://youtu.be/Ve46peMWU5w


Please do not promulgate misogynist stereotypes. Asking for this thread to be moderated.


Seriously? So noone can talk about what may or may not be gold diggers, but we're allowed to call men who disagree with you "promoters of rape culture?"

which now brings me to the OP and what I saw in the video.

This isn't the best example of gold digging. While we did see the guy in the not so nice looking car getting ignored by the lady, we also saw the rich looking guy get some attention. The rich guy even haggled the lady to get into the car, then he holds up traffic because the girl turned down his friend. A prank nonetheless, but the guy simply is an as*hole. The second video posted by Katiesboyfriend is a better example of gold digging.

can we not at least entertain the idea that she might have gotten into the second guys' car because she thought he was cute and wasn't attracted to the first guy? how do we know it was the car that made the difference and not the guy?


Here's another
http://youtu.be/XbYNAZxcWh4

Would they have gotten in a strangers car if he was driving a combine harvester or a black van?