20 Nov 2014, 12:13 pm
LoveforLoki wrote:
Kurushimi wrote:
Hmmmm...you said in another post that you have PTSD. If you have it for reasons similar to why I have it, then this is ultimately going to lead to extreme anxiety for you. You should be honest with him about all of your feelings and why you have them. I think it's sweet that he loves you so much, but not everyone sees sex as love at all times. So you should really make sure that you are only doing what you are comfortable doing. Of course relationships are give and take, but not at the expense of your mental well being. 
I thought the very same thing, I am diagnosed with Complex PTSD with Desnos. The fact that he has pressured her insistently with sex in any way is absolutely not okay, it borders rape when "no" isn't respected. A man should always respect the first no and leave it alone after that. Even if they are madly in love there must be respect for boundaries.
My husband has a very large sex drive but he has never never pressured me because he respects me, but if he did it most likely would end our marriage.
http://criminal-law.freeadvice.com/crim ... s_rape.htm
I talked to him about it after, and he felt bad and said he would not continually ask again.. He had just asked a few times. I had just worried; I'm an obsessive worrier/checker.
