15 Nov 2014, 9:34 am
15 Nov 2014, 10:30 am
15 Nov 2014, 10:31 am
LoveforLoki wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
The very fact that males here celebrate when they get a date means there's something wrong: their choices are limited to those few-in-a-blue-moon girls who happen to say yes for whatever reason and who might turn out to be horrible persons.
It's just a date, not a marriage.
It's the interview, not the job.
It's just a date, not a marriage.
It's the interview, not the job.
I like that they are happy about their dates, it is rare these days to see men express this sort of thing with the vast amount of macho attitudes and players out there.
15 Nov 2014, 10:48 am
Davros wrote:
I had no issue with your post. I thought Face of Boe unnecessarily brought bitterness and negativity into this thread.
maybe he's grumpy he doesn't have any date
seeing dating as going to an interview doesn't seem ...healthy
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15 Nov 2014, 11:15 am
15 Nov 2014, 12:11 pm
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
They get happy and overjoyed for it because it rarely happens for them; and that's bad in many ways.
sounds really serious, I hope it doesn't cause some complications...
I believe rarely dating someone is nice
and do not believe it has some bad effects..maybe just inexperience
being different doesn't automatically mean you are defective
15 Nov 2014, 12:22 pm
DoubleCatrin wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
They get happy and overjoyed for it because it rarely happens for them; and that's bad in many ways.
sounds really serious, I hope it doesn't cause some complications...I believe rarely dating someone is nice
and do not believe it has some bad effects..maybe just inexperiencebeing different doesn't automatically mean you are defective
Agreed. It is expected that positive relationship things don't happen very often. In fact, I really would dislike constantly having a crush on somebody as it would distract much of my energy from special interests and about everything else. I'm really grateful it doesn't happen very often.
And inexperience doesn't mean much if anything. I'd prefer a girl that is inexperienced over one that has dumped lots of guys every time.
15 Nov 2014, 6:10 pm
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
LoveforLoki wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
The very fact that males here celebrate when they get a date means there's something wrong: their choices are limited to those few-in-a-blue-moon girls who happen to say yes for whatever reason and who might turn out to be horrible persons.
It's just a date, not a marriage.
It's the interview, not the job.
It's just a date, not a marriage.
It's the interview, not the job.
I like that they are happy about their dates, it is rare these days to see men express this sort of thing with the vast amount of macho attitudes and players out there.
They get happy and overjoyed for it because it rarely happens for them; and that's bad in many ways.
Anyway good luck for the OP.
http://www.wrongplanet.net/postp518399. ... ht=#518399
Because women never get overjoyed when they get a date
15 Nov 2014, 6:11 pm
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15 Nov 2014, 6:33 pm
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15 Nov 2014, 6:36 pm
Kezzstar wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
LoveforLoki wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
The very fact that males here celebrate when they get a date means there's something wrong: their choices are limited to those few-in-a-blue-moon girls who happen to say yes for whatever reason and who might turn out to be horrible persons.
It's just a date, not a marriage.
It's the interview, not the job.
It's just a date, not a marriage.
It's the interview, not the job.
I like that they are happy about their dates, it is rare these days to see men express this sort of thing with the vast amount of macho attitudes and players out there.
They get happy and overjoyed for it because it rarely happens for them; and that's bad in many ways.
Anyway good luck for the OP.
http://www.wrongplanet.net/postp518399. ... ht=#518399
Because women never get overjoyed when they get a date
You are comparing the 18 years old of you with a man of 34 years old.
I bet now that you wouldn't get that overjoyed just because of getting a date, you would only be if it was with a man that you have been already liking for long.
I don't think this is the OP's case, he mentioned that it's the first date in months; so I bet she's still stranger to him whether via online dating or real life.
There's a huge difference here.
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15 Nov 2014, 6:39 pm
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Kezzstar wrote:
http://www.wrongplanet.net/postp518399. ... ht=#518399
Because women never get overjoyed when they get a date
Because women never get overjoyed when they get a date
You are comparing the 18 years old of you with a man of 34 years old.
I bet now that you don't get overjoyed just because of getting a date, you would only be if it's with a man that you have been already liking for long.
I don't think this is the OP's case, he mentioned that the first date in months; so I bet she's still stranger to him whether via online dating or real life.
I got a date on eHarmony a while back with a guy I hadn't met in real life. The guys at work had to ban me from talking about him, I got that excited.
Unfortunately he ended up not liking me
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15 Nov 2014, 6:44 pm
15 Nov 2014, 7:09 pm
15 Nov 2014, 7:41 pm
Kezzstar wrote:
You're determined to be a wet blanket aren't you?
Yes, he is.
OP - Awesome, have fun
16 Nov 2014, 5:40 am
