Posting Love Notes on a Girl's Locker

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It is a shame that such things automatically bring such things as accusations of stalking etc etc... I mean, let's face it, it is more romantic than outright going up and saying 'Wanna go out with me?' etc etc. There is no creativity in romance anymore, imho, lol. In the days past, people wrote poems etc etc. Now it is just wham, bam, will you go out with me, maam

I thought of something. Maybe I could go up to her, say hi, then pass the letter in an envelop to her personally.

NO! This is just going to show that you are too weak. I'm telling you - that is fine if you already know her, giving her something that weird is too risky. First of all, are you ready to be a laughingstock for a couple of weeks? If so, maybe just maybe, it would be worth it. It's still less likely to work than getting involved in her activities. The truth is, you don't really know this girl at all. She would be a hopeless romantic if she accepted your love based on just her appearance. This kind of stuff might have worked a hundred years ago, but the chances now are slim to none.

yeah no good. if you don't know this girl, why do you think you'd enjoy dating her?

I have always been on the receiving end of the notes I got.

Tim

Me too - and they said "kick me"

If she is "one of the top ten hot girls in school" unless you are one of the top ten hot guys in school she will not date you. Popular girls will not date Aspie guys. She will think it creepy or even worse funny and you risk becoming the laughing stock of the school and subject of ridicule in the girls' restroom and lockerroom.

Its kinda creepy and immature to leave anonymous notes or even signed notes. Notes are only romantic AFTER you are dating and leave a sweet note in their lunch box or something. If a person can't engage me in conversation enough to get to know me and ask me out there's no way they could win me over with an anonymous note. I think a lot of females feel this way. A 45-55 year old man left me a love note on my dryer at the laundromat. This is creepy. The older the person is the creepier it becomes. Normal people don't do this. And no I didn't email him like he requested on the love note.

I think bugzee is gone.

don't put a note , don't send an email and don't even speak to her .

Forget about this girl , if she is one of the most hottest popular girls at school then she would date only a one of the hottest guys of the school , she won't look at you because she 's probably get ton of offers from other guys and probably from the hottest guys as well and if you send her a love note she would cause you troubles .

It happens to a friend at school once , he fancied one of the most hot girls and he left a love poem in her bag ....the other day at the morning she came with the paper screaming like if it a tragedy happened and she told all her female friends and they made fun out of him for a year , he told me later the he hated this girl to maximum after this and i don't blame him I witnessed everything happened to him and the way that they teased him all over a year was unbelievable! ....she was a really big b***h .

Most "hot" girls are twisted .....they pretend a lot . If she finds you unattractive and you leave a love not on her locker then she would feel that her "ego" was hurt because an "unattractive " guy is trying to approach so she would show this note to her shallow silly female friends and make fun of you so she can boost her ego again . Even an email she would print it out and forward it to her female friends .
If you are a one of the hottest guys at school and leave a love note on her locker then she(the same girl) would run to you for a date and boast in front of her friend that she s dating the hottest guy.

And if you are an autistic/aspie this make things worse even if you are a hot guy the top hot girls would go to a smooth talker hot guys not to an autistic ....and i really doubt that you are a smooth talker unless if you are a special exception , are you?

Sorry for being harsh but this is the reality .....instead of wasting your time and digging yourself into troubles find a better target for you ....for example try to send a love note to a shy nice (and even pretty!) girl who is not one of these popular top hot girls .

It almost sounds like a war is brewing between aspies and the NTs.

Okay, what I should say is this. Are NTs really that intolerable of autistic individuals based on that fact alone?

^^ this has nothing to do with autism .....any regular NT student would face the same troubles in his life

It's not that simple. One of "the hottest girls" in my high school was indeed interested in me. She revealed this once it was too late to do anything about it. The clues had been there. I was definitely an outsider, and she was constantly seeing one guy (a handsome jock). Still, he was so full of himself, that she was unhappy. If I had had the courage to talk to her more, it might have worked out. But I don't think that some sort of note (especially since she was 'going' with someone - someone who could have beat the stuffing out of me then) would have worked - rather a slowly growing relationship, perhaps leading to something romantic.