Why would an NT waste their time with an aspie?

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...On the " self-hatred " tip a lil' bit , here , Cock ?



ote="Cockroach96"]I'm not sad or upset about this, but it's a tricky question.
Life is too short to waste it. Humans only live for a few decades. It's gone in the blink of an eye, so one has to make the most out of most it.
That being said, why would an NT waste their precious time with an aspie? There are many other NTs out there on the same wavelength. Aspies are annoying, infuriating, repetitive, boring, insensitive, rude, disgusting, narcissistic, selfish, immature, bizarre and socially inept. That's the way we are and we can't change it. I see no reason for an NT to want a relationship with such a worthless twisted human, when they could be in a relationship with another NT.
An NT might at first fall in love with an aspie. Once the NT knows the aspie well enough, the NT will reject the aspie and never come back. I don't understand how the aspies on this site got into relationships, or how their partners tolerate them. It wasn't supposed to happen, it's against natural selection.[/quote]

I'm not annoying, infuriating, boring, insensitive, rude, disgusting, narcissistic, selfish, immature, bizarre.

aspies aren't all the same.

If its against natural selection then NTs wouldn't waste their time on us right?... So the fact some do must imply its not against natural selection actually. And its cool you can predict everyones future and know exactly how all NTs think, feel....also quit projecting if you're insensitive, rude, narcisstic, selfish and disgusting work on that none of those are autism symptoms and not all of us share those traits with you.

Umm I've turned down quite a few offers of marriage from NTs and been in quite a few long term relationships. The worst relationship I had was actually with a male aspie. Talk about pushing each other's buttons. I adapted much more to the NT world than he did, so there were a lot of things he didn't "get" that I did and essentially I spent 6 years trying to teach him. And he always expected me to behave like an NT when that was never going to happen.
So yeah you can be an Aspie and have long term relationships whether with another person on the spectrum or with an NT. And yes it's true, with some NTs the novelty does wear off after a while and they just expect you to behave like any other woman they've dated.
I'm learning that NTs hate endless questions and you trying to figure out why they behave the way they do. They also see your shyness in person as a turn off when you're really chatty by text or email. Even AFTER you told them of your diagnosis.
One thing I have learned though, if you're always complaining about things and being generally negative, you are not going to get anyone's romantic attention. And yeah sometimes it's really really hard when you are in a depressive episode. It sucks.
BUT it can work. Just have to encounter the right people.

You know who you look like?

That woman who dug Moses in the "Ten Commandments"

Time spent with anyone isn't a waste of time, as long as they're nice and fun to be with.

Reason being is that they don't know your an aspie, then when they do find out they dump you.

whats an nt?

You're acting as if NTs are all so amazing and wonderful to be around....

Even NTs get sick of NTs....

Some of the stories my girlfriend has told me about what some NT men have done to her is disgusting.

On the other hand, she likes the way I view the world / solve problems, I'm honest, won't cheat and full heartedly do my best for her well being and happiness even if I do miss the mark sometimes.

“We are all a little weird and life's a little weird,
and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours,
we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love.”
― Dr. Seuss