I'm a 27 year old virgin

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I'm the Omega male who will be turning 27 in a few weeks and will join the 27+ virgin club. But the way I look at it, I can embrace being odd and look at what I do have, I got a degree, a good paying job, no children, no child support, no crazy exes, no diseases, no drama and a lot of peace and solitude where I don't have to answer to anybody. Sex is so insignificant to me, there' just so much better things in life to worry about.

Sex for it's own sake is insignificant to me, also. However, sex with someone with whom I have a deep emotional connection is an experience unlike any other.

The obsession with losing virginity is mostly just American hysteria. It isn't a race. You shouldn't worry so much about perceived societal norms which: 1. have no reliable data to confirm what is normal; and 2. aren't synonymous with ethics. The motivations should be enjoyment and/or procreation; not conformity.

To me, having sex is nothing short of a miracle, so I'll continue to view everyone who has ever had it as a god.



So it takes a lot of miracles. All the more of a reason to consider whoever achieves it a god. A god among gods.

Why do you want not to be odd? How do you define odd? What is unsatisfactory about your life and hoe would not being odd mitigate it?

odd: not normal
odd is being different then nts who are normal because they are the majority.

it can be a lot of things. its odd for men to not be into any sports. or to still have stuff animals.

why would anyone want to not be part of the group. odd is out of the group. unless you find other odd people, it gets lonely.

I'm odd. My boyfriend is odd. Many of my NT friends are, objectively, odd. The majority of people (or people not in high school) do not enjoy running for positions on the Council of Stellar Management, orchids, attending the Steampunk World's Fair or D&D.

Cultivating relationships with the not odd would require me to forgo many activities I enjoy. I am OK with odd.

Simply not true. Maybe that is your experience, but it is not the experience of plenty of other people. I wouldn't have had anywhere near as much success in the dating world if I didn't use alcohol to lower my inhibitions and make myself braver. I wouldn't suggest it as a great idea for everyone to try, but to say it doesn't work for anyone is nonsense.

Because for many odd people, the group isn't doing anything very interesting, fun or useful. I grew out of wanting to be part of "the group" after high school. If you have to pursue it, it probably isn't for you anyway.

Also if you spend your time trying to fit in with the majority group, you will miss out on meeting other odd people like you, who will be much more fun to spend time with.

I don't want the hatred the group gives to those who are different. I'm always different to everyone I've never meet someone who is similar to me. ie shares most of the opinions and interests I do.

I wouldn't have thought that many people would share most of their opinions and interests with other people. You might share an interest, which you pursue together, but share different opinions, which is fine. You might share a lot of the same opinions with someone but outside of discussing them with each other, you don't share the same activities. Also fine. Different people can be positives in your life in different ways and for different reasons.

I look for a partner who has similar opinions/outlook on life, that is, we are like-minded. But I'd prefer we have different activities/hobbies that we can enjoy away from each other.

How are the mainstream groups giving you hatred if you are not hanging around with them?

liberals and conservatives.
I'm pro gun, support tougher border, worry about the national debt, but pro education, abortion, and welfare.

makes it hard to get along with any group as thei bound to be strongly against one of those things and hate more for being it.

gun people tend to be hard core conservatives or tea party, can't go shooting or to a gun forum or facebook wtiht seing them bashing aspie/other nds, abortion, welfare people etc. course goes other way being near the liberals and they talk about banning buns and wanting to lock up people with any conservative opinions.

I just want to do the thing I'm there for. I joing gun groups to talk about guns. I like guns, i shoot guns, I like to talk specs and oggle over guns. seems most nts can't sperate topics. I see other gun people complain about relgious speachs are pro gun rallies, I agree with them. gatherings should be about the reason behind the gatherings. I'm looking at a glock I don't want to hear about who abortions are wrong and need to ______.

see I'ved been burned. so I know if I get a friend or person and they are anti gun evneutally they going find out I own guns ad that won't sit well with them. ends friendship with me.

I do want to have activies in common wtih my gf though. i want to be able to do things with her. but I'm one of those gf should be my best friend types. I' did everything with my male best friend. I had some activies we didn't do togher. and that would be fine with gf as long as shes accepting of it. like she don't have to play video games or if does doesn't have to play the same games, but she can't be the video games are childish and nag me over them type.

right now I don't have anyone to do anything with, so I don't do anything. it really sucks. I spend 99% of my life in a tiny room.

me and you OP can sort of relate

I'm 25 and I still haven't had my first sexual experience. Just don't think it's too late for you because it will happen at some point for you.

That's explain the meeting anybody ever thing.