Women, when do you decide to go out with someone?

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I'm married and I've never figured out how people date. I never really dated, in the sense of dating being a trial period. I was usually not very subtle about letting them know I liked them and if they didn't turn me down it turned into a more serious relationship. I'd probably want to do things differently (to avoid getting stuck in abusive relationships) if I were to do it again but dating has always been something that mystifies me.

If it cheers you up, I bet there are plenty of guys who won't tell you this, stay friends with you and suffer in silence.

No.....that's just kinda depressing tbh.

I know, "if it cheers you up" was meant as a cruel joke on reality.
What I wanted to express as a response to you remarking sadness that it's unavoidable is: Better to let them go than trying to hold on to them at their expense, no need to be sad as it's the right thing to do.