30 Sep 2015, 9:24 am
Peacesells wrote:
smudge wrote:
At the time I had bought him Valentines presents, so just ate them myself. 
I kept them and let them rot like our love, lol. Still have it.
Now that I think of it, it's a bit creepy. 
It's a satisfying way to think of them though!
30 Sep 2015, 12:15 pm
underwater wrote:
izzeme wrote:
for future reference: if a guy brings up sex in the first day of interaction, 9/10 he is interested in a hookup, so don't invest too much emotionally in these cases (but don't flake out too soon, the 10th guy might be worth the trouble)
I agree with this. I think it's totally cool that you were clear about what you wanted. This can be very attractive to a decent guy. I know this from happy experience
Yes its the same guy.
30 Sep 2015, 2:37 pm
LeaPoufyPony wrote:
Yes its the same guy.
It's very clear that he just wants sex. I have the impression that you like this person very much are you are tricking yourself into believing that maybe it's not as it looks like and he actually wants a serious relationship. But it doesn't really seem to be the case, I'm sorry.
30 Sep 2015, 7:53 pm
Peacesells wrote:
LeaPoufyPony wrote:
Yes its the same guy.
It's very clear that he just wants sex. I have the impression that you like this person very much are you are tricking yourself into believing that maybe it's not as it looks like and he actually wants a serious relationship. But it doesn't really seem to be the case, I'm sorry.
I'm afraid you're right .I was just in denial and the signs kept coming up which is the reason why I decided to snap out of it and make my intentions clear. I'm just not cut out for casual sex.I get attached and start wanting more
30 Sep 2015, 11:44 pm
01 Oct 2015, 3:00 am
LeaPoufyPony wrote:
Peacesells wrote:
LeaPoufyPony wrote:
Yes its the same guy.
It's very clear that he just wants sex. I have the impression that you like this person very much are you are tricking yourself into believing that maybe it's not as it looks like and he actually wants a serious relationship. But it doesn't really seem to be the case, I'm sorry.
I'm afraid you're right .I was just in denial and the signs kept coming up which is the reason why I decided to snap out of it and make my intentions clear. I'm just not cut out for casual sex.I get attached and start wanting more
Completely fair; and there are guys that think along the same lines. This is not one of them.
Definately don't get pressured into having sex before you want to (casual or early on in a relationship), it isn't a lost cause to look for those who are willing to wait, gentlemen aren't extinct just yet
01 Oct 2015, 4:02 am
LeaPoufyPony wrote:
Peacesells wrote:
LeaPoufyPony wrote:
Yes its the same guy.
It's very clear that he just wants sex. I have the impression that you like this person very much are you are tricking yourself into believing that maybe it's not as it looks like and he actually wants a serious relationship. But it doesn't really seem to be the case, I'm sorry.
I'm afraid you're right .I was just in denial and the signs kept coming up which is the reason why I decided to snap out of it and make my intentions clear. I'm just not cut out for casual sex.I get attached and start wanting more
Yes you should look for someone better who cares for you. Good luck and if you have doubts you can always ask people here.
01 Oct 2015, 7:56 am
Sweetleaf wrote:
Peacesells wrote:
smudge wrote:
At the time I had bought him Valentines presents, so just ate them myself.
I kept them and let them rot like our love, lol. Still have it.
Now that I think of it, it's a bit creepy. I have seen some old candy, but never have I seen rotted candy.....is it possible for it to actually rot?
I would think bakery items. Sweets exposed to air can go slimey and warp.
01 Oct 2015, 9:12 am
IMO you pushed him a bit. It's like asking an obvious thief if he's stolen something, multiple times lol.
You have made your boundaries clear, nothing wrong with that. In fact very attractive to many guys who want a serious relationship I'd imagine.
