14 Oct 2015, 6:24 am
14 Oct 2015, 7:58 am
OohLaLah wrote:
Cockroach96 wrote:
darkphantomx1 wrote:
The people who are your age and never had a gf usually have some sort of flaw which makes getting a relationship very hard for them. For instance, being overweight, being clearly autistic, no license, terrible around women, super ugly etc...
You rarely meet someone who is good looking especially women who have never been in a relationship. The ones you do, they're not in a relationship because they choose to not be in one.
Find what your flaw is and try to fix it. If you're overweight, lose weight. If you don't have a license, go get one. If you're ugly, perhaps put some more thought into your clothes selection, if your social skills are absolute s**t around women, look on the internet how to talk to women. If you're autistic, try to act less autistic.
You rarely meet someone who is good looking especially women who have never been in a relationship. The ones you do, they're not in a relationship because they choose to not be in one.
Find what your flaw is and try to fix it. If you're overweight, lose weight. If you don't have a license, go get one. If you're ugly, perhaps put some more thought into your clothes selection, if your social skills are absolute s**t around women, look on the internet how to talk to women. If you're autistic, try to act less autistic.
Only NTs have told me not to act autistic.
Anyway, autism is an unfixable flaw.
Besides, you can learn how to talk to women, but only in a theoretic way. If you actually try to do it, you will be puzzled and overloaded with anxiety.
I don't see autism as a flaw or tragedy or something to be fixed. It's just part of me. I shudder at how awful it must be to feel that an immutable part of yourself is somehow wrong or needs to be excised.
I wish the NT society thought the same way.
14 Oct 2015, 8:14 am
Cockroach96 wrote:
OohLaLah wrote:
Cockroach96 wrote:
darkphantomx1 wrote:
The people who are your age and never had a gf usually have some sort of flaw which makes getting a relationship very hard for them. For instance, being overweight, being clearly autistic, no license, terrible around women, super ugly etc...
You rarely meet someone who is good looking especially women who have never been in a relationship. The ones you do, they're not in a relationship because they choose to not be in one.
Find what your flaw is and try to fix it. If you're overweight, lose weight. If you don't have a license, go get one. If you're ugly, perhaps put some more thought into your clothes selection, if your social skills are absolute s**t around women, look on the internet how to talk to women. If you're autistic, try to act less autistic.
You rarely meet someone who is good looking especially women who have never been in a relationship. The ones you do, they're not in a relationship because they choose to not be in one.
Find what your flaw is and try to fix it. If you're overweight, lose weight. If you don't have a license, go get one. If you're ugly, perhaps put some more thought into your clothes selection, if your social skills are absolute s**t around women, look on the internet how to talk to women. If you're autistic, try to act less autistic.
Only NTs have told me not to act autistic.
Anyway, autism is an unfixable flaw.
Besides, you can learn how to talk to women, but only in a theoretic way. If you actually try to do it, you will be puzzled and overloaded with anxiety.
I don't see autism as a flaw or tragedy or something to be fixed. It's just part of me. I shudder at how awful it must be to feel that an immutable part of yourself is somehow wrong or needs to be excised.
I wish the NT society thought the same way.
yeah... it took me a long time to gain to courage to tell other that my brains wiring was different, not faulty.
14 Oct 2015, 8:33 am
I told them many times, but they will never understand. It's as if I was talking to them in Esperanto.
Capitalism is dirty business and doesn't give anyone financial security, but it makes dating easier. After all, there's no Facebook or Tinder in North Korea.
14 Oct 2015, 3:47 pm
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