For those of you who are virgins

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It's what i've been thinking and trying to say all along.

I honestly think it's just his sense of humor.

His personality is very aggressive, yes, but I find him to be ironic, tongue-in-cheek, and his posts have a certain satirical sarcasm in them that I can only laugh at.

His misogynistic, self-depreciating attitude feels like a parody to me. He's doing it for fun.

"I'm back from the dead bros!" XD I can't take most of his posts serious because irregardless of how aggressive he is, he's ludicrously satirical.

What age? I'm not sure. I'll need to take a look into my crystal ball again. Last time I asked it about that all I got was some kind of demonic giggle out of it. Not sure if that's a good sign?

Honestly, I don't see any point in playing guessing games. I don't have any evidence to suggest it's any more likely to happen this year, next year or the year after than it was to happen in previous years, so why guess?

I don't know. It happens when it happens.

Honestly i think i will be a virgin until the day i die of old age (unless something grabs me by my life line and ends me off sooner).
I don't really care all that much about this aspect of life, experiencing the sexual part, i can see how it probably is a nice experience to share with someone you love/ grow a bond with (whatever that is varying from person to person), but i don't really see it as a big let down if i never get to experience it.
What i am afraid of though, is living a whole life, never having been in a relationship. I do think that i might be destined to this faith though, as i don't think i'm relationship material to be honest, so i think i should at least try to focus on other things whilst alive, find a way to feel happy about life, whether i end up alone or not.

It's as obvious as anything can be that I'll never lose it, no matter what I do, unless, of course, you count being ass-raped as losing my virginity.

I just don't speak of my direct issues with it often, I do have a formal diagnosis. Really high functioning in most aspects would be my description, more so now than I used to be. You flatter me too much though. I have not seen that thread yet.



Lol me having my s**t together, that's funny. I'm just trying to dig myself out of a very deep hole I've put myself in. It's a very big IF on college in the fall btw. I'm not there now because I got academically dismissed. Taking some community college classes to try to get myself some good cred again so I can get back into the University I was going to. Now I just have to get a grip and hold it for more than 6 months this time.

Depends I've seen a few people say your still a virgin til you've done it w bunch of times and gain experience.and women can tell.

I don't really count the sort of one time.

As for carrying it in my sleeve. I'm not Capable of lying, so when they ask have you had past sexual relationships or gfs I have to say no.

Why am I fine but if you're in my boat , you'll going go off and die somewhere 0.o

Having less the. 5 sexual partners,or
Having had sex less then 10 or more times or however long it takes to become good, or
Lacking past relationships is considered just as bad as being a virgin.
So I'd rather tell people I am the. Have to explain the event and that I'm not sure I actually had sex.
Sure they'd only make fun of me or relate it to hiring s hooker or something
I already feel used and wish it'd never happen.

Does it really matter when you will loose it? "Virgin" is just a label, designed to shame those who have not taken place in the act of sex.

Because we want different things out of life. I don't know what I want, and I'm only speculating what frame of mind I might actually be in by 27. I never said lie, do people really ask that often about virginity?

It's not just a label; it's the fact that you've never done it. And, for this fact to persist over time, you need to keep not doing it. The problem is that some of us who have never done it, if not most, do want to do it, so we don't exactly look forward to keeping our virginity forever.

It is just a label, and a meaningless label at that. There is no shame in "never having done it". Nor is there pride to be had in "doing it".

That's a funny question. I think, last time I was asked that, I was still too young for the possibility that I wasn't a virgin to be taken seriously. I think I wasn't even sure what "being a virgin" meant (if I recall correctly, I doubted whether you needed a hymen to be a virgin).

Now, as an adult, there are two very convincing reasons to explain why I'm not asked that question:

1) Few people talk much to me.
2) Those who do, either have known me since I was a little boy, and therefore are perfectly aware I've never had a chance to lose my virginity, or could tell I'm a virgin---among many other things---from a mile away as soon as they first saw me.

I want to buy a crystal ball to find out if that guy is interested in me & want to get to know me.


It's hard to say when I will lose it, I don't even have a boyfriend.

When I'm out and about on my own in a place no-one knows I have a wife or kids, I don't doubt I'd come across as a virgin.

That said, I very much doubt anyone other than virgins (and possibly the recently first-time laid) go around dividing the world up into 'virgin' and 'not virgin'.

Most people are too busy worrying about what other people thinks of them to think about other people, and when they do it's in terms that matter to them. The characteristics we search for in others are the ones we are concerned about in ourselves.

To someone who has spent much of their adolescent and post-adolescent life not having their s**t together, that's some remarkabley together s**t. Good going, and good luck!