My Crush

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You know what, Kitty. You're my kind of girl.

If we were about 18 years old together, we probably would have been perfect.

I wish this Jeff thing worked out for you.

But there will be others.

Thanks kraftiekortie you are a good person. How am I your kinda of girl? You think I should avoid the coffee house? He is not working tomorrow

This must be a great coffee house. Why not still go there?

You're my kind of girl because you are sincere in what you want. And you're for real.

I really like the coffee house, I been going there since 2007 & made 2 friends there you are making me kraftie.

I just hope you find somebody nice soon.

I want to go into the coffee house today, but it would be very weird seeing him & what if he takes my order.

I know it would be pretty awkward for you.

But I bet he was flattered.

You know what? Some writers use their crushes as something called a "muse." Many writers have been successful because they have been inspired by their crushes, and frequently give credit to their "muse."

Look at the bright side: You didn;t get a line that was so obvious it was insulting.

I actually got, "Sorry, but I wash my hair on Friday nights."

That'll know the breath out of you.

Ouch!! That must of hurt so much.

Actuality no....I'm so freaking clueless. Took me several years and seeing a movie or TV show that I knew it was a really lame excuse. Wanna know how clueless?

Got set up on blind date for coffee. She knew I was broke. Took me to dinner, her request. Had a two hour dinner. Then she took me to her place. And,......




I bored her to death to the point that she said goodbye and shut the door as soon as I exited.

Took me two years to put that one together.

Once I get it, I'm insulted. I feel like that puppy dog that hasn't figured out when the owner throws the ball or pretends to throw the ball.

I'm not much of a writer, I used to write children stories, now I write poems.

I might go to the coffee house tomorrow, Jeff is not working

Oh wow that sounds like a really good analogy for a lot of things about being aspie. You should post this in the general discussion forum for some general discussion about it

Feel free to run with it.^^^^

In my early 20's, I was in an accounting class with this cute Russian girl. I remember she laughed at all the stupid jokes the professor made, and they were stupid. She also was very nice to me, which is one of the two pre-reqs for me liking a girl. I got here phone number by the ol' "I just want your number in case I miss a class" trick (I never missed a class). It took about two days for me to work up the nerve and wrote the script that I was going to say in my head, rehearsed it many times before calling. When I asked her out, she stated that she was married with five kids. But she did thank me for my interest and was quite nice about it. But, man, was I embarrassed! I could feel my heart hit my shoes!
I never did talk to her again, but could not avoid the class. And yes, I went the next day.

I HATED when things don't go your way. I don't think I will ever get a man, I am curse with bad luck.

I HATED when things don't go your way. I don't think I will ever get a man, I am curse with bad luck.[/quote]


Hard to peg your whole level of success in dating on one singular event. It is good that you took the chance, how would you know that he was married unless you ask?
I would 'probe', ask questions to find out if the person had a significant other, questions like "what did you do over the weekend?" And if they indicated that they went out, I would ask "oh, did you go with friends?"
I found my wife on e harmony.com. it was not easy, got rejected, a lot but the woman on that site were more serious than other sites. Or try meet ups that have your interest. That would not work for me because none of my hobbies/interest attract women.
More exposure ensures a greater chance of success. At least in the statistical standpoint.