Well I'd expect Feminist's to fit the 'strong, independent' woman archetype, though you have always seemed very opposed to Feminism (and rightfully so!).
Even then, I'd expect a reasonable number of Feminist's to be left-wing and liberal, rather than right-winged.
Are you so sure it would be a deal-breaker or far too difficult if a woman wasn't libertarian but something else slightly right, centrist, or even slightly left?
In fact, your description of your views has made me wonder if you are aware of the concept of left-libertarianism, and if that may describe your political views better than traditional right-libertarianism.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Left-libertarianismYeah, they don't exist here. It's either they are hardcore leftist, or apolitical and ignorant about eveything going on in the world.