Which type would be more suitable for me given my looks?

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13 Apr 2016, 5:40 am

Based purely on appearances I like the girl with the purple hair the most.



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13 Apr 2016, 7:15 am

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I wouldn't say any of those girls are 10s (based on appearance). 10s to me are the very best-looking people. They are not the very best-looking. I would say they are probably all above average for women of that age, but nothing particularly special.

That said, I don't think that any of those women seem like the types to be interested in the OP. He's not unattractive, but seems to be more of the intellectual type. Cheerleader types aren't typically intellectual, and neither are those who favor lots of tattoos/piercings. Cheerleaders in my experience tend to be more superficial, and boring. And those who have a lot of tattoos are often very artistic or unusual in other ways, but not necessarily intellectual. They tend to date others who are similar, from my observations.

If I were interested in women I'd much rather date the girls with all of the tattoos over the bottle-blond, fake-tanned cheerleaders.


As someone who regularly reads Wikipedia for fun, enjoys New Yorker cartoons, and reads the newspaper daily, I can personally attest that being an intellectual person whose attracted to airheads is the worst kind of hell that I would never wish on anybody (except for the jerk that posted the fake picture of Oreo Toaster Strudels as an April Fool's joke :P). I now increasingly understand why Brian on Family Guy is an alcoholic (although my vices of choice are junk food and video games).



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13 Apr 2016, 7:40 am

I'm trying to figure out what is it with the purple hair that is that much of a turn on? I'd never go out with a guy that had purple hair.

My Ma colored her hair Auburn with some purple in it and got quite a bit of positive feedback. Maybe I should try that. Hmm.


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13 Apr 2016, 8:16 am

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I'm trying to figure out what is it with the purple hair that is that much of a turn on? I'd never go out with a guy that had purple hair.

My Ma colored her hair Auburn with some purple in it and got quite a bit of positive feedback. Maybe I should try that. Hmm.


If they all had purple hair that girl would still be my favourite.

Purple is my favourite colour by the way, so naturally I'm always going to find purple hair attractive.



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13 Apr 2016, 8:26 am

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Well, you look a bit more...er..."excited" about the tattoo women?


my first thought!! !!



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13 Apr 2016, 12:20 pm

Gosh what a weird question.



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13 Apr 2016, 12:27 pm

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You are average, they are 10s.

Sorry, but society would usually dictate they are both out of your 'league', if you are one to believe in those things.

However, why should you care?

If you have the confidence of a 10, along with a good job and independence, go for whatever the heck you want to go for.

If it doesn't work out, perhaps think about aiming lower and more realistic.

Also, tattoo chick with the purple hair is the hottest.

Since you've made a thread like this, I was wondering if you could help contribute to my 'Male fashion advice' thread.

Perhaps you could tell me what kind of women you think would be good for me (nerd, goth, alternative, etc.) and if you think I have decent style or not:

viewtopic.php?t=312560


flabby cheerleader esque models, who look like bad extras for a weird 90's sports or highschool movie with weird faces and one who looks like she's going for a fish face are 10's, I suppose that's interesting.


LoL. They don't look flabby at all to me, their figures look fine and feminine. I honestly do not see what it is that some men and women find so appealing about those so called 'perfect' and 'hard' model bodies. They look rather androgenous, boyish masculine even, to me.
I find the purple haired chick with tattoos rather skinny with boyish/too slim hips. Not attractive imo. By the way: I don't think they are perfect 10s, but they are definitely better looking than TS. TS also seems to be a very different kind of guy, rather the intellectual type, as someone said before.



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13 Apr 2016, 1:10 pm

You seem to be 'pointing' to the blonde with the tats, go for that 'type'.



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13 Apr 2016, 2:59 pm

nurseangela wrote:
I'm trying to figure out what is it with the purple hair that is that much of a turn on? I'd never go out with a guy that had purple hair.

My Ma colored her hair Auburn with some purple in it and got quite a bit of positive feedback. Maybe I should try that. Hmm.


I find non natural hair color done right to be attractive. For me I think it relates to emo girls. Who tend to be ones to dye their hair non natural colors. They also tend to be nerdy, playful,and have a very cute personality. However they like all women are out of my league,but they are my preferred type as I'd have most in common with them.

I dont know if that's the same reason others like it.



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13 Apr 2016, 6:30 pm

I'm guessing you are attracted to the girls with the ink.
Just a guess.

Go for them sorts of girls if you are attracted to them, just don't expect them to like you back XD
Well you never know!


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13 Apr 2016, 6:58 pm

"I'm trying to figure out what is it with the purple hair that is that much of a turn on? I'd never go out with a guy that had purple hair. "

For me, it's not the best hair color there is. I prefer natural always over dyed, and brown to dark brown at that.

But purple is the best of those four women, and is one of my favorite colors too.

"LoL. They don't look flabby at all to me, their figures look fine and feminine. I honestly do not see what it is that some men and women find so appealing about those so called 'perfect' and 'hard' model bodies. They look rather androgenous, boyish masculine even, to me.
I find the purple haired chick with tattoos rather skinny with boyish/too slim hips. Not attractive imo. By the way: I don't think they are perfect 10s, but they are definitely better looking than TS. TS also seems to be a very different kind of guy, rather the intellectual type, as someone said before."

Whoeever said it's bad to be attracted to androgynous figures? :lol:

That's actually one of the body types I like, and I also think the purple-haired woman pulls that short-cut off.

It's better than so-called 'curvy' women in the media, such as Nicki Minaj, the Kardashions, etc.

Women who use cosmetic surgery to look thin and boyish is equal in attractiveness to women who use cosmetic surgery to get bigger hips.

Naturally thin woman > cosmetic surgery to look curvy.

Well, the OP does like airhead women, unfortunately.

Why exactly do you like them OP? Purely physical?

Is there anything about their personalities you enjoy?

Perhaps they're a bit low-maintenance regarding hobbies and interests.

Women who's hobbies and interests are almost entirely watching reality tv, work, tattoos, and scrolling facebook memes on their phone, may have lower expectations of how many hobbies you must have to be 'interesting'.

Meanwhile, I'd expect an artistic woman who likes writing, reading, creating music, sports, hiking, camping, film/tv production, acting, craftsmenship, New Ageism, etc.

might find a guy who's interests are 'reading New Yorkers and wikipedia' slightly too 'bland' for her tastes, even if you are an intellectual.

Meanwhile, the airhead women you love so much will easily make you feel great by saying "You're so smart!" for stating what facts and know-how you've learnt from reading.

Just a guess.

Maybe you also enjoy the personalities of social extraverts. I never understood why many aspies seem to hate the excited, bubbling airhead types so much - they're not all that bad, and I myself would love a woman bright and larger than life.



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13 Apr 2016, 7:04 pm

I like curvaceous women who are intellectuals yet who are able to argue reasonably and with elegance.

I'm not the party type, and never was the party type.

I could take it or leave it with the tattoos. I'll never get a tattoo.

I don't like women who are always thinking about their woes, rather than what's beautiful in the world.



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13 Apr 2016, 10:51 pm

I don't think anyone has made this point explicit: why are you limiting yourself to these two types of women?

Why are you presenting two types, and not, say, 25 types? Are you only attracted to these two types, to the exclusion of all others?


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13 Apr 2016, 11:03 pm

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While on a trip to Boston this weekend, I took these pictures at a Boston Celtics game and tattoo convention that happen to be held in the hotel I was staying at with, respectively a pair of Celtics cheerleaders/dancers, and a pair of alternative/tattoo models. My question is, based on my appearance, which of these would be more suitable for me from a relationship standpoint?

Forget the tattoo models. First picture, woman on the right (your left) looks the least pretentious. Sincerity and caring are usually a good match for those of us on the spectrum.


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14 Apr 2016, 1:06 am

SportsGamer35728 wrote:
My question is, based on my appearance, which of these would be more suitable for me from a relationship standpoint?

Neither.



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14 Apr 2016, 2:55 am

Cheerleaders won't date geeks, be real.

And tattoo-covered girls often only date other punk tattoo-covered guys.