13 Jul 2016, 8:43 pm
14 Jul 2016, 2:19 am
314pe wrote:
But can you really say what influences your attraction? It's not exactly the most rational process. You may think that you only care about personality and not physical features, but maybe you consider personality attractive because you find person's physical features attractive? Unless you communicate online only of course.
Actually, for me, it's the other way around. It's his personality that makes him so physically attractive to me. If the personality is a turn off, his looks would do nothing for me at all, no matter how much of a stud he might be. Now, this might be due to my having no vision, but I assure you, I can still gage what someone looks like in my way, through word of mouth, hugging, or something. With my guy, I was completely head over heals, and his physical attributes only added to my being attracted to him, when I finally had a good idea of what he looked like. We met in person, not online or anything. We went to the same church.
