I dont know of anybody who would be attracted to somebody that they consider ugly. That's pretty normal to not be attracted to somebody you think is ugly. Everybody has their own standard of who they consider to be good looking. I like darker swarthy looking guys and don't really consider the blonde, blue eyed Aryan types to be the standard of good looks. Blonde guys with olive skin and dark eyes are ok, but I prefer dark hair and eyes and olive skin. There are lots of gals who would very much disagree with me about this and I've only dated a very few of the Nordic types and while they were good looking, their personality was more important to me than their looks and was why I dated them. I've never dated a guy on purpose that I considered ugly, although I went on a blind date with a couple of them.
It's perfectly fine and not at all shallow to want to only date someone you find attractive. What's shallow is refusing to be friends with someone who you don't think is attractive or to think that unattractive people are less important than more attractive people.
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I'm giving it another shot. We will see.
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