Aside from sex, what good are women?

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12 Jul 2016, 6:10 pm

I'm not trolling. If it's not for sexual attraction thing, what else women would have more than men have.


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12 Jul 2016, 6:23 pm

I enjoy women. I like their voices, their mannerisms, their way of looking at things. They are valuable.

Of course, they can be irritating, too (but so can men!)

Without women, I would feel an emptiness. I wouldn't have anybody to cuddle with. I don't cuddle with men.

Women, in general, are valuable simply because they are a member of our species.

So what if women are equally important as men!

I think there's some kind of full moon tonight or something. Why all this negativity?????????



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12 Jul 2016, 6:35 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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If you meant to make a perfect equivalence of the other thread, you should have said "Aside from eggs, What Good Are Women?" and the thread had to be started by a female member.


I wouldn't even care about the gender of the poster if it wasnt only good for sex


But why you didn't get that offended at the other thread? What "aside from sperm" means other than sex too? :P

The other thread's title is sexist as hell, yet it didn't get locked, so its equivalent clone would be indeed sexist too.


I see your point and perhaps you are right.

I suppose in my brain it's more of a biology thing as would the whole aside from eggs thing like it's necessary for continuation of the species

Whereas saying anyone is only good for sex is like your using someone for your own pleasure.



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12 Jul 2016, 6:37 pm

ShesGone wrote:
I'm not trolling. If it's not for sexual attraction thing, what else women would have more than men have.


Men are strong hunters and women are the untiring caretakers.

Women tend to be more in tuned emotionally whereas males are more protective.

Both genders are awesome in my opinion. Like ying and yang they compliment each other.



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12 Jul 2016, 6:39 pm

I don't care what the reason: I like women!! !! !

I don't care if it's biology. I really don't. So what?

I find women pretty. And I find them delightful.

Men are fine in their own way---but I just can't have sex with them.

Only with women. And I don't care if biology's the reason for me falling in love. I feel the Love. And it's a good feeling, no matter what the "origin" is.



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12 Jul 2016, 6:42 pm

And I'm not even negative either. I don't understand why some people would think this thread and the other one as negative ones seriously.


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12 Jul 2016, 6:43 pm

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Women are more empathetic and nurturing, men are more objective and decisive. To be honest if you didn't have a mother and a father, your childhood probably sucked.


As someone without a dad, I can attest to this.



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12 Jul 2016, 6:47 pm

It's just not cool, that's all.

Women are great for many things. So are men. To think otherwise is really wrong.

It creates a negative atmosphere that we don't need. It doesn't serve any purpose.



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12 Jul 2016, 6:52 pm

ShesGone wrote:
And I'm not even negative either. I don't understand why some people would think this thread and the other one as negative ones seriously.


Some people get offended by being objectified. Particularly women. I didn't find it offensive, but I'm not a woman and find very few things offensive.

It just comes off as bitter. Not that I take it that way. But it does give that impression.

But to answer:

I hate any pro-gender BS. Men and women have different strengths that compliment one another-- personalities, attraction and mental illnesses aside.

Women, in the general sense, are FAR more patient people. They also tend to have much better intuition.

Without women the world would be imbalanced. And really disinteresting to look at :lol:



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12 Jul 2016, 6:58 pm

ShesGone wrote:
And I'm not even negative either. I don't understand why some people would think this thread and the other one as negative ones seriously.


Ok but how would you feel if someone said you were only good for sex?

I want to work, to research cures and be seen as a contributing member of society. I want to be appreciated for my work.

And to thing that despite that someone would think I am only good enough for sex is heartbreaking. I've been there before and it f*****g hurts



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12 Jul 2016, 7:08 pm

Alliekit wrote:
ShesGone wrote:
And I'm not even negative either. I don't understand why some people would think this thread and the other one as negative ones seriously.


Ok but how would you feel if someone said you were only good for sex?

I want to work, to research cures and be seen as a contributing member of society. I want to be appreciated for my work.

And to thing that despite that someone would think I am only good enough for sex is heartbreaking. I've been there before and it f*****g hurts


It's f****d up, no doubt about it. I just think a guy would not take it like a woman would (being said they are only good for sex-- most men may even get a shot of pride over that). Also, and say this to not be inflammatory even in the slightest.. so lay off... but the guy IS gay. So his experiences with women's emotional sensitivity may be limited. Again, not knocking the guy, but it's a probable statement here.

Not defending either, just making a point.



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12 Jul 2016, 7:13 pm

beakybird wrote:
Alliekit wrote:
ShesGone wrote:
And I'm not even negative either. I don't understand why some people would think this thread and the other one as negative ones seriously.


Ok but how would you feel if someone said you were only good for sex?

I want to work, to research cures and be seen as a contributing member of society. I want to be appreciated for my work.

And to thing that despite that someone would think I am only good enough for sex is heartbreaking. I've been there before and it f*****g hurts


It's f****d up, no doubt about it. I just think a guy would not take it like a woman would (being said they are only good for sex-- most men may even get a shot of pride over that). Also, and say this to not be inflammatory even in the slightest.. so lay off... but the guy IS gay. So his experiences with women's emotional sensitivity may be limited. Again, not knocking the guy, but it's a probable statement here.

Not defending either, just making a point.


I wasn't trying to be harsh and apologise if it came off that way. I was just trying to explain it in a way that may be relatable.

I understand he is gay but anyone would be hurt by being thought as only good for sex wouldn't they? (Genuine question). And I have gays friends who don't feel the oposite gender is only good for one thing

I suppose I'm more passionate about it because I've had sex with a guy and thought we were dating. I found out that all he thought I was good for was sex very quickly



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12 Jul 2016, 11:41 pm

ShesGone wrote:
And I'm not even negative either. I don't understand why some people would think this thread and the other one as negative ones seriously.


Because there's more to life than just sex (really!), and because lumping all women into one narrow category, and all men into another is not just insulting, it's erroneous. Similarly, not all people with brown eyes are the same, or all people with blond hair, etc. Luckily, people are far more complex and interesting than that. Gender is just one part of who we are as individuals; we have different personalities, interests, strengths and needs, and more. We are not just boot-knocking, baby-making machines!

And yes, if you're gay, I'm betting that you're not attracted to all other men, are you? Of course not--you can appreciate the variety there, too! Don't you want to be recognized and respected as an individual? So does everyone else.



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12 Jul 2016, 11:53 pm

First, I want to give sorries if I made anyone get offended.

When I questioned as to "WHATs", I only expected someone gave me "WHATs". I know men do things that traditionally consider "women" things except romantically attracting men( I said it simply sex), which only women can do.

I was not saying women are only good for sex.


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13 Jul 2016, 12:01 am

Alliekit wrote:
Men are strong hunters and women are the untiring caretakers.

Women tend to be more in tuned emotionally whereas males are more protective.

Both genders are awesome in my opinion. Like ying and yang they compliment each other.

Hey, I'm perfectly good caretaker and I'm sometimes very emotional.
Alliekit wrote:
I understand he is gay but anyone would be hurt by being thought as only good for sex wouldn't they? (Genuine question). And I have gays friends who don't feel the oposite gender is only good for one thing

But you said the same thing. You said that men are only good for hunting and women are only good for protecting.



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13 Jul 2016, 12:03 am

ShesGone wrote:
First, I want to give sorries if I made anyone get offended.

When I questioned as to "WHATs", I only expected someone gave me "WHATs". I know men do things that traditionally consider "women" things except romantically attracting men( I said it simply sex), which only women can do.

I was not saying women are only good for sex.
^ This.


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