I hate being approachable

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There’s nothing mean in fending off unworthy suitors.

If a sexy young lady wants to be mean, she’ll instead do something along the lines of leading them on so she can then get them arrested to rot in prison being ass-raped every day.

Well, I guess they view you the same way as you view those disgusting neckbeards, not attractive enough for the likes of them.

Also the only way I figure people don't see you as icy and frigid is if you're quiet around people and smile a lot despite thinking how disgusting anyone who dares approach you is. I mean what you say here gives the impression without a doubt that you are an icy, not very nice, shallow and judgmental type....so I suppose to give people the correct idea you'll have to express the sentiments you express here to people IRL.

You can't expect to attract supermodel guys unless you also look like a supermodel. Average girls attract average guys and vice versa.

If you look unapproachable, those Calvin Klein model guys still won't approach you, they like approachable girls too, just so long as they're on the same scale of attractiveness.

That's not you. You look nice but you look regular nice, not actress nice or 10/10 nice. That's why you attract regular guys.

Most guys don't look attractive anyway so it's to be expected.

Average girls are a lot more attractive than average guys.

True. That means the pool of attractive guys is way smaller than the pool of attractive girls.

A girl hoping for an attractive guy is like hoping to win the lottery.

I think DevilKisses is pretty attractive, actually.

If she starts de-emphasizing her concerns about image, and tries to be herself instead, I feel like she'll attract more suitable guys.

In fact, just showing confidence may be enough to scare off most of the disgusting neckbeards who now think they have a chance with her.

another way to put it: they can probably smell the self-loathing. they feel like they've found an equal. so they approach you

if you want to change it, start by learning to appreciate yourself

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In fact, online dating is the wrong venue to seek for extrovert guys.

Because they are out there, drinking beer with their friends - not on some okcupid.

That explains why I keep having dates with girls with chronic depression. I need to find a new way to meet girls so I can meet girls with better mental health.

Obviously you hate "neckbeards", but what are "actual attractive" people in your mind?

They don't have to look like models. Just average and more outgoing people who have a wide variety of interests. I regret this thread. I asked a mod to delete it.

If it's truly just average guys you're after, then physically you have no worries. But you have a real mean-spirited attitude to you that makes you very easy to dislike. You could try being more outgoing and a little bit less thoroughly vile in regards to nerdy people and you just may have better luck.

I'm mostly just venting. I'm not mean to nerdy guys in real life.

DK you said some not so bright generalising things in this thread, but I think you realise that now .

I suppose when you prescribe to a trend, you dont have to embrace all aspects of it, perfect the look, no need to adopt the accompanying attitude, think for yourself instead.

Anyway I don't get what the big deal is with neckbeards, its just hair, could have a nice texture.

Her attitude is typical on dating sites, I have seen plenty of profiles attacking the guys on dating sites in the same way.