What Kind of Girl Do You Like?

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I've been here a while.

And I find you to be a nice, "natural" woman.

You like to be feminine---yet you have masculine interests, too.

Men actually tend to dig that more than somebody who tries too hard to be "feminine."

Honestly I don't really know but I hear women talk worry about not being feminine enough or having too masculine of interests but I think a lot of guys or at least I would find that preferable to have similar interests and to not have to walk around on eggshells with a person.

As a femme person attracted to women too, I like butch women lol. In terms of personality I like funny and outspoken women.

I like them with fries and ketchup.

Nice and pretty girls ofcourse

I would love to meet a girl who enjoys my weirdness, sense of (deadpan) humor and puns and it would be great if she also has a little bit of social absence because that would make me feel pretty comfortable and relaxed because I would be less nervous to talk to her and not feel awkward lol

Cute, feminine, intelligent, relaxed (as opposed to melodramatic), and a good listener. ^^ Oh, and cuddly~! ♥

I personally need to be relatively physically attractive to a prospective girl friend, but because of the aspie problems I have, need someone who is completely honest and who is good/kind natured or even full of virtue (an angel perhaps?...lol).

I think for a long term relationship to work, it is good to have a fair amount in common such as sharing the same hobbies, political views (if you have any) and same philosophical / religious beliefs (or at the very least, be respectful and open minded enough to allow your partner to hold their own beliefs without causing arguments).

For example, i have some really strong creative interests (music / art / programming) which really drive me and when I get on one with a project, then i really need to have someone who can either participate / collaborate or at the very least be supportive.

I am also a keen martial artist, and would spend all my time training if i had the energy, time and money.
So being with someone who shared these interests who really got off on these interests would be really cool.

I also like playing console games, drinking (going to disco/pubs), going out for meals (if i have enough money) and going for a boogey.
Although these are lesser interests, with the other hobbies being more obsessions.

I think that being an aspie does change or make intimate's harder or at least a bit different.
As aspie's often have really big problems with anxiety and stress, and may be possessive and clingy to their partner. They may also be a bit paranoid about their partners dealings with others if the trust has not been established or if the trust has been compromised.

I also think that people on the spectrum, if they are dating people who are neurotypical, need to go out with people who understand the problems that people on the spectrum have so that the neurotypical can help, be patient and understand the differences instead of attacking and hurting, or in the worst case scenerio (as happened in one of my past relationships) be physically abused by the partner who feels she's right to because you have acted a little strangely or heaven forbid, expect honesty from your partner!

But there ya go. But remember in the long run different strokes suit different folks. So what may be good for one may not be good for another. and to make things even more confusing, sometimes what you think you want turns out to be your worst nightmare.

Just a note of precaution. It is my advice if you hold strong religious view or the contrary, hold no religious beliefs at all, don't get involved with any one who has a strong religious belief if you can help it. As religion often will cause extra stressors, conflicts and arguments in your relationships. Some religions may also ban you from doing many of the things that you love doing that you may normally regard as completely normal.

Unless you other wise have a predisposition for badness, i would also advise you to stay well clear of anyone who has interests in magick or dark occult beliefs, as many of these people are extremely sadistic and will cause you much pain (in my own experience).

Otherwise, I wish you the best of luck.

Thick, curvy, girly-girl types... If she's emo/goth, that's perfect: Like Boxxy... Someone who's basic, old-school, down to earth, and easy to talk to...

It's kinda hard to describe what I like in a girl. But I guess I can say I'm attracted to femininity and cuteness. Though I have found a couple of tomboys quite nice as well..
I also like girls who are 'what you see is what you get'; what I mean by that is not fake or two-faced, but genuine, honest, and true to themselves. Also, if she shares common interests with me, that's bonus points! ^^

A girl who is kind and understanding who is also feminine. You have to have empathy for other people and accept that my hobbies are very important to me. So even if you don't share them don't try to belittle them and take them away from me. Like I love going to concerts and it's not uncommon for my bands to play several nights in a row or for me to travel out of state to see them.

In the circles I run in it's pretty common for women to not shave or wear make up for example. If that is what you like go for it but sorry I can't be with a women like that. I can be friends with you though and I have heard all the talk for a lifestyle like that. Like it's natural for women to be hairy so there is something wrong with me if I don't like that. I don't buy it.

I know women don't really look like what they do in make up. I've seen partners without it and yeah I can tell but they still look pretty to me. But in those cases I was also very attracted to their personalty which is ultimately more important to me. Real beauty is on the inside but I am a male and there is a reason that women have done what they do to their bodies since time began.

You also have to be shorter than me ideally but I am 6'0 so most women are.

I'd like someone who's quiet, nice, straightforward, honest, and is into the things I am into (music theory, video games, and computer science), or at least appreciates them. Perhaps a girl who's also on the spectrum might be ideal. I really can't stand the really butch, bossy types who always want to be at the center of attention. Looks wise, I like long hair, almost no makeup, and no tattoos.

Adiquate respirations and in a profusing rhythm.

Actually I nevernput much thought into it but personality and good looks are about all that I ever looked for and petsonality made or broke the looks part. I've met women who were a top model looker with the personality of a junk yard dog and I wouldn't even consider her a looker and the other side is I have seen the plain jane who has a heart and personality of gold that could have stolen my heart if I had one.

My wife is the perfect combination of personality and beauty, and I found her I think by devine intervention because she is out of my league and yet is my biggest cheerleader in my journey to understand Aspergers and life.