Does anyone get really bored when your loved one is sleeping

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The_Face_of_Boo
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12 Dec 2016, 5:28 pm

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What's your stance on polygamy?

Well, the only practical solution is to get a second boyfriend for the night.

So you would have a day boyfriend and a night boyfriend.

You can nickname the latter my owlboy - how sexy!

I'm purely monogamous and don't think about getting another guy to fill in for a night, lol. And polygamy just seems primitive. :D


Well, practically you would be monogamous with each guy.....for a half day.

I don't do what I wouldn't want done to me, and I don't believe most guys could measure up to him, at least not for me.


How tall?

Oh, I wasn't talking about height. I meant that most guys can't compare to him because of the way I think and feel about him.


Aww...

So now what you are gonna do to pass a boring night? Watching porn?



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12 Dec 2016, 6:30 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Moccu wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Moccu wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Moccu wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
What's your stance on polygamy?

Well, the only practical solution is to get a second boyfriend for the night.

So you would have a day boyfriend and a night boyfriend.

You can nickname the latter my owlboy - how sexy!

I'm purely monogamous and don't think about getting another guy to fill in for a night, lol. And polygamy just seems primitive. :D


Well, practically you would be monogamous with each guy.....for a half day.

I don't do what I wouldn't want done to me, and I don't believe most guys could measure up to him, at least not for me.


How tall?

Oh, I wasn't talking about height. I meant that most guys can't compare to him because of the way I think and feel about him.


Aww...

So now what you are gonna do to pass a boring night? Watching porn?

That is kind of a personal thing to ask, but no. Neither of us do, what I do to pass the time is read or post something that's on my mind, night time is a good time to research something.

He's coming over after work tonight and I made burgers. Apparently he's going to bring me 6lbs of assorted meat that was on sale for a good deal, which is kind of random but I'll take it. 8O


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12 Dec 2016, 6:53 pm

No, I kind of like it when he's sleeping. Gives me time to read quietly or play games.

I think that's what happens when you've been together for a long time. You sort of NEED that other person to get out of your face for a while lol


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12 Dec 2016, 7:19 pm

Luhluhluh wrote:
No, I kind of like it when he's sleeping. Gives me time to read quietly or play games.

I think that's what happens when you've been together for a long time. You sort of NEED that other person to get out of your face for a while lol

I'm usually the last one to fall asleep and the first person to rise, so it feels like my days are longer in comparison to a lot of people. It's like I already have loads of time to do my own things, and then I start missing him even though he's around, just unconsciously.

I can be up at 6am, and know he won't be up for another 6hrs.

I can still relate to what you're saying, during the day I sometimes need the kitchen to myself when I'm focusing on cooking something to perfection, so I kick him out to the living room until I'm done. Other times, I just need my private time for self-care that I'd rather him not witness or distract me from.

Those are the times I wouldn't mind him taking naps for.


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13 Dec 2016, 8:41 pm

My girlfriend sometimes takes naps & I usually join her but I don't always. I try to distract myself so I don't feel bored when she's sleeping like playing a video-game or watching TV. I don't do too much on computer when she's sleeping other than playing games or web browsing cuz I type loudly & my comp is in the bedroom across from hers.


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