Whould you go out with a women who tried to trick you

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Because YOU clearly have a crush on HER, you may be reading a but too into this looking g for any semblance of a sign she's interested back.

So...you were chasing her but you don't want to chase her now that she wants you to chase her?

Abusive how?

Abusive how?

Because YOU clearly have a crush on HER, you may be reading a but too into this looking g for any semblance of a sign she's interested back.

I think this is a pretty common theme in someone having a distant crush, and not being well acquainted or having very restricted contact with the person. Most of it is based off of presumptions of what you perceive their feelings are or what her actions could mean every given moment.

I am a cashier at at a large retail store. For what is almost three years this girl looks at me when she passes by the lanes. One day she decided to come to the breakroom. This was an anomaly because she RARELY ever went the breakroom.

I was siting on an empty table. She came in and decided to sit on my table the opposite corner. It was so awkward! she had this tense look on her face, she sat with her legs crossed and she was flicking her foot around in circles. She didn't say anything. I didn't have anything to say, I was uncomfortable. Eventually this dude walks in and sits straight across from her. It seemed like this guy talked to her earlier. She seemed disturbed by the guy. The conversation sounded so forced. She shot intimidating questions at him like a job interviewer. She kept turning her head over at me. When it was time for me to leave I got up and she was looking again. as I walked near her chair I stopped and gave her a good smile right in front of the guy. (Apon reflection my gut tells me that what was happening right there was real) I don't think she ever went on a date this guy. Because later he was giving me a don't do it man! look.

The weekend before

The weekend before we had two chances to talk.

On Saturday, as soon as I opened my lane she came over and put a soda on the conveyor belt. I said what I usually say when I ring people up.

On Sunday, when I headed to the break room. I looked through the window on the door and to my horror I spotted her siting on one of the tables. I wasn't prepared to strike a conversation, so I turned around and stood next to the lockers with my phone. She eventually came out, hovered around for a minute, she then went to her looker which was right across from me. She looked at me with the corner of her eye and then headed back to work.

Later that day she looked at me with a sad wistful face as she passed my lane. (And it was up close)


The trick

Yesterday to my knowledge she didn’t look at me when she passed my lane (she could have when I wasn’t paying attention).

I sit on a table alone breakroom and she shows up with this new guy who was fancily dressed and a bit on the chubby side. I look up at them she instinctively looked at me. They sit at the table across from me. The guy was barbering on about something and she was laughing so loud. She was only there for a short period of time I think she spent most of her break somewhere else. After she left the the guy looked nervously down at his phone.

I feel like I have to do everything. If I don't shes going try to get me jealous. Would you date a girl that tries tricks on you?

Why does she stop and look at me when she opens up the door to the lockers? She did that the other weekend right after she went through my lane.

I'm going to ignore her for now on.

I would if we met online & that was our 1st time meeting offline. I would assume she brought the guy to be safe just incase I was some kind of creep.