The women who remain on many dating sites for too long...

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Maybe not "unfindable", but I agree that they're often unrealistic. Personally, I would much rather date someone imperfect than dream about a relationship with an ideal partner.

It could also be an insecurity thing or narcissistic thing. Like they love all the male attention they get cause it makes them feel socially validated and or more confident about themselves.

I can see how that amount of crazy attention can become addictive for some people. I bet they get tons of it on dating sites.

She is a liar, and that is how she deals with your feelings. Instead of doing the grown up thing and actually communicate clearly what she wants. So to make it easier to move on from someone like her is, is to get closure, but somebody like that will never really give you closure because it is always in their best interest to lie to you to save themselves from having to be direct and honest. I would think that should be good enough reason to move on quicker.

I went on a date with someone like that, she just disappeared. Then after years she decided to meet me and then I finally got her to tell me what the reason was for her disappearance. It was nice to get some closure. It was about something I said, and I believe in. And I'm not changing my position on the matter. So all I can do is to accept that we are not compatible, when the usual self me, wants to adapt and change to please the other person. When we both know it will not really work in the end, because how long will I keep up the pretending?

I hope it gives you some closure Boo

I just realised in the end that these NTs who are young are also struggling in their own way. And this woman who I met later in life, was older and realised her own mistake she made by just disappearing. So just because they are NT doesn't mean they know how to date or communicate properly, if they are young, they are prone to making mistakes too. So we can be forgiving about this.

Actually, you're all wrong. Most likely these women have seen Walker Texas Rangers and now we, all the other men, have lost all of our appeal to them.

Oh my Lord. You know what I see? A bunch of bitter guys. Makes you all look even more unattractive.

Men like Boo say they want women with careers, with that comes women making more money and able to support themselves and expecting more out of men - to be expected.

You want a woman with looks and a career, you better have something to offer. Lots of women get married everyday, so there must be some men who have what it takes.

Now I have more homework to do so I can make something out of myself....AND President Trump is on tonight!

I was looking for news on our fine President Trump and I found this:

Study: Online Dating Causes People To Lower Their Standards

https://www.studyfinds.org/study-dating ... line-love/

From the article :

"Participants’ “wish lists” were comprised of seven categories for an ideal mate: hair color, eye color, body type, education level, personality type, political view, and religious affiliation. The authors determined that instead of searching until they found someone who met their dating wish list criteria, participants were likely to communicate with people who had only some of those characteristics.

In fact, the study showed that more than 65 percent of the contacts the participants made with potential dates on the site had one or less category that matched their wish list. About one in three contacts had zero matching attributes. "

Do hair and eye color really matter? Isn't that kind of shallow? I do know the last four (education level, personality, political and religion) are on my list even though I'm not as strict on religion.

It says the 60 yr olds are more selective - probably because they have been through all the crap from picking the wrong people in the first place.

The moral of the story? MAKE YOUR "WANTS" LIST AND STICK TO IT!