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Because of my electronics work I really only date IRL but just as OP said I think leaving these dialogues open is a big win for everybody. Just remembering what a certain someone likes about my mind is a big weight off. I'm a well known mad scientist, talks like these keep me out of the market for dusty mansions.

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"Standing on a well-chilled cinder, we see the fading of the suns, and try to recall the vanished brilliance of the origin of the worlds."
-Georges Lemaitre
"I fly through hyperspace, in my green computer interface"
-Gem Tos

1. Make up relative/friend on the spectrum.
2. Google up local support groups/meetups.
3. Attend and keep a low profile.
4. Scout for suitable target.
5. When opportunity presents; pounce!
6. ?????????
7. Profit!

Hmmmm. positively interesting... Well thank you on behalf of at least myself for actually putting the time and effort in as an NT to actually vaguely understand us ""weird"" lot Just have a question though... You mention you love to date aspies and seem to have had a number of past aspie boyfriends.. Just wandering if they were so great.. Why are you still not with them?

Sorry, seems a bit personal i know, but many of us have been hurt a plenty and when i see such a post my alarm bells go up somewhat.

You would love me. I'm handsome, very fit and a huge music geek. Guitar and music production have been my main interests for 11 years now.

Unfortunately, you're a bit too old for me.

i'm an aspie from New York,so are there any Women,or Girls that are open to going out with me

Whatever the constellation of neurological make-ups, someone has been hurt in one direction or the other at some point. Just the nature of people and relationships.

Also, Just how dank are these memes of which you speak?

. <- my contribution to this thread.

There's always a few of us frequenting good coffee shops. It wouldn't hurt to look for guys who can spend their entire year studying, that's where I go when no one's around.

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"Standing on a well-chilled cinder, we see the fading of the suns, and try to recall the vanished brilliance of the origin of the worlds."
-Georges Lemaitre
"I fly through hyperspace, in my green computer interface"
-Gem Tos

I find OP trustworthy anyway though. Mistaken allocations of trust on my part are all the more reason I should be paying attention to this topic. It's the only way to stop isolating.

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"Standing on a well-chilled cinder, we see the fading of the suns, and try to recall the vanished brilliance of the origin of the worlds."
-Georges Lemaitre
"I fly through hyperspace, in my green computer interface"
-Gem Tos

I'm glad that my post has brought some light into your lives. And thank you to the above poster who said that they trust what I originally posted about. If anyone would like to connect with me further please feel free to shoot me an email mildpetrichor at Gmail dot com (just in case you're not able to post email addresses here) Ill do my best to keep an eye out on this post but it is trying to load it on my phone for some reason so again emailing is easier if anyone would like to get to know me and see where it could lead. All friends welcome and don't give up guys... I can't be the only one out there with an aspie interest lol all the best

Lol, I read the first two sentences and thought it was some kind of "nigerian royalty" scam, only directed at aspies. But then the kid at the end shows it's genuine...I think, with autism it's hard to tell so I ere on the side of caution-- ok, downright suspicion.

Working as often as I do with the internet I prefer to get suspicious in person only, if at all possible. It's also why I really even shy away from discussions on online dating sites, if I wind up with mixed feelings about anybody I'd strongly prefer it being on something we're on the same page about. That & sometimes my paychecks come from companies &/or people I don't want knowing anything about my life or who I care for. Some years ago I realized I haven't afforded myself the luxury of a 'normal' relationship with technology & I'm just grateful I got that across to the people I need before it cut me off. I don't exactly know if patience or observance really count as part of my judgement of character or my social skills.

I think I'm still more concerned with just being together with people & so reconciling myself than judging what anyone wants from me though.

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"Standing on a well-chilled cinder, we see the fading of the suns, and try to recall the vanished brilliance of the origin of the worlds."
-Georges Lemaitre
"I fly through hyperspace, in my green computer interface"
-Gem Tos