How can I ask girls out fast?

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I'm still wanting this thread to continue. Bump.

One thing a lot of guys don't get is that every girl is different and respond to advances differently. There is no "cheat code" to unlock a woman's vagina. There are some things you can try, but there is no foolproof way ask out girls. So keep that in mind.

A lot of guys mess up because they overthink it. If you think a girl is cute and wanna approach her, look at what she is wearing. Walk up to her and compliment her clothes, her hair, really anything. This not only introduces you to her but it breaks the ice. This works especially well if they are wearing merch from a band. From there you could ask if they want to hang out sometime, then ask for their number. Doesn't always work, but is an effective way of approaching.

If you know the girl then it's as easy as asking something like "hey, do you wanna go to ____ with me?" cliche, but it's cliche because it works. I had two tickets to a Slipknot concert for me and my friend, but he got really sick so he couldn't go. I asked a girl who I have been friends with if she wanted to go with me, she doesn't like metal, but came anyway. Long story short, we were offered mdma at the concert, we took some, and after it was over we "hit it off" in the car.

If you are afraid of rejection or are really nervous about this, you have two options.
1. Take anti anxiety medication. You can prescribed these if you have AS and they are good at making you do stuff you normally wouldn't do.
2. Buy a fleshlight and an oculus rift, because the internet has you covered.

TL:DR
Don't overthink it, compliment the girl on ____, ask her to go with you somewhere. Acquiring mdma gives you bonus points.

Last edited by yungsavage on 23 Apr 2017, 8:01 am, edited 2 times in total.

Seems like perfectly sound advice, although...

But watch out, if you use that cheat code and an admin catches you, prepare for the banhammer.

You see all these poor guys busting their asses trying to ask out girls, but little did they know that all they needed were 2 100$ Slipknot tickets and some mdma.

1. Break the ice
2. Small talk
3. Flirt
4. Ask for phone number
5. Ask out

I try to keep it to one sentence & leave the partying to its' own times & places for the most part. Fastest way in my experience is have any normal conversation. Letting girls talk to me = *idyllicly* happy girls.

Or 2 20$ Ghost or Behemoth tickets and some weed + some money to buy beers, but seriously people pay $100 to see Slipknot?

It's vaguely troubling that half the metal I know is in languages I don't.

Usually Slipknot host a festival sort of thing where a ton of other bands play with them (last year they had black sabbath and slayer play). That is the "100$ concert" I was referring too.

Ah that makes more sense, I figured you meant like a regular concert which 100$ is a rip off especially if you want to get any beers or band merch. I didn't know Slipknot typically mostly did festivals, that makes the 100 dollars more reasonable I suppose.

Still for a more early on date a smaller venue show for around 20$ might be better since one might be a little salty if they spend $200 on a date and things don't work out as a relationship lol.

I just want to know how to make a move quickly, also so someone won't swoop in and take a girl away from me.

you don't. it's that simple. you just don't.

if you make a move that quickly, if you meet someone and get her that quick, she's immature. mature people don't meet and just fall in love. it takes time, effort, friendship first, communication, trust, and those things cannot and will not happen in a short amount of time. if they do, it's lust. every time.

if all you want is lust and attention, just go on online dating and message a bunch of people.

"Hai gurl, does this rag smell like chloroform to you?"

A+

Just do the exact same thing that the other guy did before that other guy does it 1st.