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Corny
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25 Apr 2017, 12:47 pm

I notice that you guys haven't responded anything since yesterday. But I have a update. I broke up with my girlfriend. Well not officially yet. But she now knows that I'm going to break up with her. And told her because we're moving and her parents. But that I still have feelings for her a lot. Not official yet because I'm still going to be with her and holding her hands and stuff and stay the same until the last day for seniors. Which is May 12. Then that's the date we're done. And that is gonna suck for both of us.



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25 Apr 2017, 1:43 pm

Corny wrote:
I notice that you guys haven't responded anything since yesterday. But I have a update. I broke up with my girlfriend. Well not officially yet. But she now knows that I'm going to break up with her. And told her because we're moving and her parents. But that I still have feelings for her a lot. Not official yet because I'm still going to be with her and holding her hands and stuff and stay the same until the last day for seniors. Which is May 12. Then that's the date we're done. And that is gonna suck for both of us.

I think that's appropriate.

If, and I stress IF you would ever reconsider years down the road when she's independent and in a position to reconnect, all you really need to do is keep some line of communication open, like an email address, website, social media site...something that would be obvious and easy for her to remember. None of that "meet me by the old oak tree at exactly 12:00 noon on December 15, 2020" kind of crap. That way you can work something out in 3 or 4 years or more IF YOU WANT TO. I know you're preparing for all kinds of different paths for your lives to take, but I think we all catch ourselves wondering "What if...?" It's up to you. I have no doubt you'll do what's best.



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25 Apr 2017, 1:49 pm

AngelRho wrote:
Corny wrote:
I notice that you guys haven't responded anything since yesterday. But I have a update. I broke up with my girlfriend. Well not officially yet. But she now knows that I'm going to break up with her. And told her because we're moving and her parents. But that I still have feelings for her a lot. Not official yet because I'm still going to be with her and holding her hands and stuff and stay the same until the last day for seniors. Which is May 12. Then that's the date we're done. And that is gonna suck for both of us.

I think that's appropriate.

If, and I stress IF you would ever reconsider years down the road when she's independent and in a position to reconnect, all you really need to do is keep some line of communication open, like an email address, website, social media site...something that would be obvious and easy for her to remember. None of that "meet me by the old oak tree at exactly 12:00 noon on December 15, 2020" kind of crap. That way you can work something out in 3 or 4 years or more IF YOU WANT TO. I know you're preparing for all kinds of different paths for your lives to take, but I think we all catch ourselves wondering "What if...?" It's up to you. I have no doubt you'll do what's best.

Yeah I would love to meet her again years later and start a life together. But I sadly can't see that happening.