Aspie dating a "gifted" and it's NOT going well

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He takes everything he learned about me, anything personal, and is using it to hurt me. Saying things like he hoped my abusive parents beat the meanness and LGBT+ out of me....... yeah, that's frightening, I've been physically attacked before by a guy, so I worry more than most. He even has asked me for sex and COMPLEATLY blew up when I said no, never.
It's like 2-7 emails a day (I don't have my phone so he emails me to make sure I see it) each email is MULTIPLE paragraphs long, and very hateful. I stopped replying a while ago. I talked to the school counselor yesterday, and she said she would talk to him. Kinda pissed off because she was actually going to take actions against him (suspension, In school detention, or something) and then I said he has AS and boom. "He's just expressing himself" I just don't feel he should be let off entirely like she has done just because of AS.
And I got 3 more emails today. I got so sick of it this was my latest reply
" Stop emailing me, or legal actions will be taken. This includes all communication. Do not text, message, email, or speak to me. "
Is that straight forward enough for AS? If not I have no clue what is.

I know he has AS and will be different from what I said earlier. I'm going to be blunt with you and say you should brake up with him.

It's ok no probs. If he still keeps doing this. Maybe have the school or your parent's permission to file a restraining order against him.

Either block him or tell your parents. I hate it when people justify terrible actions people with AS do because "aspies will be aspies". Stalking somebody is not conducive with having AS. What he is doing is illegal. He is harassing, stalking, and blackmailing you all at once.

We aren't morons, we aren't robots with no emotions. He knows what he is doing is wrong. All the aspies justifying his actions are delusional and are likely trying to justify their own bad actions. The only thing that you did wrong was say that you are never going to have sex with him. It is human nature for males to want to have sex. A relationship without sex is a relationship that's bound to fail.

Besides that, block him on every form of social media possible. If he comes up to you in person, call 911. You can also have your friends intervene this situation. This kid is a terrible person.