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01 Sep 2017, 1:12 pm

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I am plus sized. I'm very happy with how I look. I've been doing a modified whole 30 diet for nearly three or four months. I don't eat junk. If you ask me, McDonald's, Burger King, KFC etc... are super gross. I love to exercise too.

Here I am

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Awesome! See, this is what I'm talking about--a self-secure, very pleasant, cool person. And if you feel the need for self-improvement, you do something about it.

It's really not about looks, as in plus-sized makes you a bad person. I've just been burned so much that I can't get away from those negative associations.


I weigh about 241 but would like to lose back to 195 (I love myself now but I know I will feel even better at 195). I was at 252 8O

Only 46 more pounds to go. My waist was at 46" but is at 42" or 43" now.


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01 Sep 2017, 1:44 pm

xxZeromancerlovexx wrote:
AngelRho wrote:
xxZeromancerlovexx wrote:
I am plus sized. I'm very happy with how I look. I've been doing a modified whole 30 diet for nearly three or four months. I don't eat junk. If you ask me, McDonald's, Burger King, KFC etc... are super gross. I love to exercise too.

Here I am

Image

Awesome! See, this is what I'm talking about--a self-secure, very pleasant, cool person. And if you feel the need for self-improvement, you do something about it.

It's really not about looks, as in plus-sized makes you a bad person. I've just been burned so much that I can't get away from those negative associations.


I weigh about 241 but would like to lose back to 195 (I love myself now but I know I will feel even better at 195). I was at 252 8O

Only 46 more pounds to go. My waist was at 46" but is at 42" or 43" now.


I'm in the same weight range. I've been told that is overweight for a guy my height (5'11) and age (29).

I don't see anything anime or video game related in your room. Do you keep that stuff in your closet?



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01 Sep 2017, 2:23 pm

Marknis wrote:
xxZeromancerlovexx wrote:
AngelRho wrote:
xxZeromancerlovexx wrote:
I am plus sized. I'm very happy with how I look. I've been doing a modified whole 30 diet for nearly three or four months. I don't eat junk. If you ask me, McDonald's, Burger King, KFC etc... are super gross. I love to exercise too.

Here I am

Image

Awesome! See, this is what I'm talking about--a self-secure, very pleasant, cool person. And if you feel the need for self-improvement, you do something about it.

It's really not about looks, as in plus-sized makes you a bad person. I've just been burned so much that I can't get away from those negative associations.


I weigh about 241 but would like to lose back to 195 (I love myself now but I know I will feel even better at 195). I was at 252 8O

Only 46 more pounds to go. My waist was at 46" but is at 42" or 43" now.


I'm in the same weight range. I've been told that is overweight for a guy my height (5'11) and age (29).

I don't see anything anime or video game related in your room. Do you keep that stuff in your closet?


That's my mom's room. My room is being repainted. :D

Here is some of my stuff

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01 Sep 2017, 2:32 pm

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Chronos I meant no disrespect. It sometimes still feels like it did five years ago before such information was so readily available. I had to dig deep to find what I was looking for... read many books. Were you eating a whole foods plant based diet when you had a weight problem? Because if that's not the case; I'd understand why you did. I was overweight for most of my life until I gave up animal products.

Calorie deficits are a short term solution but your metabolism will eventually catch up with you and result in a binge.


I did not perceive any disrespect.

My weight problem was due to medication which interferes with fat metabolism.

I was a vegetarian at the time, and my diet was generally simple and low in fat.



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01 Sep 2017, 3:22 pm

PCOS can also cause weight issues. You can't know what a woman is struggling with just by looking at her. You can't just assume that she's lazy, doesn't enjoy energetic hobbies and eats junk.

https://www.pcosdietsupport.com/pcos-symptoms/weight-loss-with-pcos/



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01 Sep 2017, 3:39 pm

xxZeromancerlovexx wrote:
Marknis wrote:
xxZeromancerlovexx wrote:
AngelRho wrote:
xxZeromancerlovexx wrote:
I am plus sized. I'm very happy with how I look. I've been doing a modified whole 30 diet for nearly three or four months. I don't eat junk. If you ask me, McDonald's, Burger King, KFC etc... are super gross. I love to exercise too.

Here I am

Image

Awesome! See, this is what I'm talking about--a self-secure, very pleasant, cool person. And if you feel the need for self-improvement, you do something about it.

It's really not about looks, as in plus-sized makes you a bad person. I've just been burned so much that I can't get away from those negative associations.


I weigh about 241 but would like to lose back to 195 (I love myself now but I know I will feel even better at 195). I was at 252 8O

Only 46 more pounds to go. My waist was at 46" but is at 42" or 43" now.


I'm in the same weight range. I've been told that is overweight for a guy my height (5'11) and age (29).

I don't see anything anime or video game related in your room. Do you keep that stuff in your closet?


That's my mom's room. My room is being repainted. :D

Here is some of my stuff

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I think I'm in love...



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01 Sep 2017, 6:29 pm

hurtloam, PCOS is something that can be remedied through diet
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HcT4K5KkTDE

As for medication; I'm currently on a medication that put me from 167 to 177... I'm not proud of it and I'm currently working towards getting back down to my ideal weight. No medication should make you obese. Sorry; but theres a big difference between 10 lb and 100 lb.

I think theres a fairly sizable miscommunication here... I'm not talking about morbidly obese girls; I'm talking more along the lines of 170, 180, 200 MAX (if she carries it well...)



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01 Sep 2017, 8:28 pm

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I doubt your preference is related to aspergers.

I like slim women. Slightly visible abs is really sexy imo.


Same here! I've always been attracted to athletic women. Unfortunately, they're pretty much never attracted to me for some reason :roll: :(



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02 Sep 2017, 1:57 am

salowevision wrote:
hurtloam, PCOS is something that can be remedied through diet
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HcT4K5KkTDE

As for medication; I'm currently on a medication that put me from 167 to 177... I'm not proud of it and I'm currently working towards getting back down to my ideal weight. No medication should make you obese. Sorry; but theres a big difference between 10 lb and 100 lb.

I think theres a fairly sizable miscommunication here... I'm not talking about morbidly obese girls; I'm talking more along the lines of 170, 180, 200 MAX (if she carries it well...)


Bearing in mind that neither of us have pcos I guess we're not that qualified to talk about it.

But all the women I know with pcos struggle with keeping weight off.

And yes medication can affect weight gain.

We really can't judge people and guess their lifestyle just by looking at their weight.



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02 Sep 2017, 6:45 am

Never been attracted to bigger girls. Always liked lean girls. I do think men either inherit a gene that makes them either attracted or disgusted by fat women and it's not linked to Aspergers. For women though I never met one that preferred fat or skinny men to athletic or normal weight men.


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02 Sep 2017, 7:25 am

SportsGamer35728 wrote:
Closet Genious wrote:
I've always been attracted to athletic women. Unfortunately, they're pretty much never attracted to me for some reason :roll: :(


Me too. Are you short, nerdy maybe, babyfaced can I ask? I have been lean for many years and yet lean women weren't attracted to me. I only attract obese girls fro some reason when I tried online dating.

I'm babyfaced and somewhat unmanly looking, and I think this is why slim women don't like my looks. They can afford to be more picky, and tend to go for the media male ideal (masculine/hunky). That's just the way it is.

Do obese women think babyfaced or unmanly-looking men are more likely to choose them?


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02 Sep 2017, 12:40 pm

Sometime World wrote:
Me too. Are you short, nerdy maybe, babyfaced can I ask? I have been lean for many years and yet lean women weren't attracted to me. I only attract obese girls fro some reason when I tried online dating.

I'm babyfaced and somewhat unmanly looking, and I think this is why slim women don't like my looks. They can afford to be more picky, and tend to go for the media male ideal (masculine/hunky). That's just the way it is.

Do obese women think babyfaced or unmanly-looking men are more likely to choose them?


Check this out... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ILNRQ7ekGjo



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02 Sep 2017, 12:55 pm

If you go looking for stuff on YouTube to justify your bias you will find stuff on YouTube that justifies your bias - first rule of YouTube.



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02 Sep 2017, 1:16 pm

hurtloam wrote:
salowevision wrote:
hurtloam, PCOS is something that can be remedied through diet
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HcT4K5KkTDE

As for medication; I'm currently on a medication that put me from 167 to 177... I'm not proud of it and I'm currently working towards getting back down to my ideal weight. No medication should make you obese. Sorry; but theres a big difference between 10 lb and 100 lb.

I think theres a fairly sizable miscommunication here... I'm not talking about morbidly obese girls; I'm talking more along the lines of 170, 180, 200 MAX (if she carries it well...)


Bearing in mind that neither of us have pcos I guess we're not that qualified to talk about it.

But all the women I know with pcos struggle with keeping weight off.

And yes medication can affect weight gain.

We really can't judge people and guess their lifestyle just by looking at their weight.


Its ridiculous how people guess lifestyles based on weight.

I weighed 235 give or take in this picture and even when I was 185 people gave me crap about my size.
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02 Sep 2017, 2:50 pm

hurtloam wrote:
If you go looking for stuff on YouTube to justify your bias you will find stuff on YouTube that justifies your bias - first rule of YouTube.


Did you even watch either of the links I shared? Dr. Michael Gregor is a certified physician who presents research in his videos to promote health and wellness. He was one of the speakers who helped convince the American Heart Association to specify that animal products are atherosclerotic.

Dr. Jordan B. Peterson is a well known psychologist and professor at the University of Toronto who has reached out to millions... he's one of the few psychologists left whose views are centered in realism.

Both links I shared present peer-reviewed research. The first supports the fact that PCOS can be remedied through diet and the second supports the fact that women tend to be highly selective when it comes to dating. Over-generalizing them simply because they're featured on YouTube shows how BIASED and closed-minded you are.



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02 Sep 2017, 4:40 pm

What you need is a baby faced big booty college chick, especially one with a feminine sounding voice so when you're hitting it from behind, her moans will be like heavenly sounds.