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ashleynd92
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13 Nov 2017, 12:59 pm

It's okay. I honestly wasn't expecting for him to like me back. It has happened to me before at least 10 times. My expectations aren't very high when it comes to guys liking me back.



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13 Nov 2017, 1:06 pm

ashleynd92 wrote:
It's okay. I honestly wasn't expecting for him to like me back. It has happened to me before at least 10 times. My expectations aren't very high when it comes to guys liking me back.

Why do you feel that way 0.o

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13 Nov 2017, 1:54 pm

Good on you for having the guts to be direct. Sorry to hear you had no luck.



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13 Nov 2017, 2:52 pm

The reason that I feel like this way, is because I have been rejected so many times that I no longer feel anything. I used get upset, cry and feel like my world was ending. But I just got used to being rejected and I eventually ended up feeling numb to the pain.



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13 Nov 2017, 6:12 pm

ashleynd92 wrote:
The reason that I feel like this way, is because I have been rejected so many times that I no longer feel anything. I used get upset, cry and feel like my world was ending. But I just got used to being rejected and I eventually ended up feeling numb to the pain.

I’ve been rejected thousands of times. I’ve just gotten depressed and bit bitter. Never gotten numb to it.
Guys do want to date you though atleast.
Isn’t a single woman who has ever wanted to date me.



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13 Nov 2017, 6:27 pm

Even though it didn’t end in him having romantic feelings for you, you played it really brave & cool. I hope it works out for you in the future.



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14 Nov 2017, 5:17 pm

I am sorry that you haven't any luck. I might be a little picky when it comes to guys that I want to date. I know that this might sound bad but I won't date any guy if I know that they have Asperger's.



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14 Nov 2017, 6:13 pm

ashleynd92 wrote:
I am sorry that you haven't any luck. I might be a little picky when it comes to guys that I want to date. I know that this might sound bad but I won't date any guy if I know that they have Asperger's.


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I don't post here anymore because most of it is same old same old but that triggered me. You won't date the one type of male that will understand you best.

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14 Nov 2017, 6:18 pm

I agree with SilverBoltsisWmax.

You don't deserve anyone.

Buy a cat.



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14 Nov 2017, 6:37 pm

Huh? What did she do anything wrong?



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14 Nov 2017, 7:07 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Huh? What did she do anything wrong?


They’re just offended that a female finds their personal attributes unattractive.

Yet it’s perfectly fine for them to turn their nose up at fat women.

Move along, nothing to see here.

News break: It’s perfectly fine to not be attracted to fat women or men with aspergers traits.

There are no offended entitled overweight women here who go into their moan threads saying “You don’t like me, so you don’t deserve anyone”.

lol, pathetic. :lol: :lol:



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14 Nov 2017, 7:08 pm

ashleynd92 wrote:
I thought I would update on what happened. So I told the guy who I had a crush on, that I liked him. It took a few months for me to get the courage to do it. After I told him, he very nicely told me that he was flattered that I was so straight forward, but that he was not interested in me that way and he wants to be just friends. I wasn't upset because I knew that he was going to say. Guys that I like always tell me that. Well life goes on I guess.

Too bad :(


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14 Nov 2017, 7:14 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Huh? What did she do anything wrong?


She has aspergers(low functioning even), but won't date a guy with aspergers.



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14 Nov 2017, 7:16 pm

Closet Genious wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Huh? What did she do anything wrong?


She has aspergers(low functioning even), but won't date a guy with aspergers.


And? Maybe someone with another disorder will want to date her.

Letting it dent your ego is a bit sad.

She should probably lower her standards if she wants some success, but it’s very similar to the 10000 threads here created by males, definitely no worse.



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14 Nov 2017, 7:24 pm

hale_bopp wrote:
Closet Genious wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Huh? What did she do anything wrong?


She has aspergers(low functioning even), but won't date a guy with aspergers.


And? Maybe someone with another disorder will want to date her.

Letting it dent your ego is a bit sad.

She should probably lower her standards if she wants some success, but it’s very similar to the 10000 threads here created by males, definitely no worse.


I think you're projecting a bit here, but it must feel good for you to finally let off some steam.

The difference is this: I'm not a hypocrite.
I don't expect something more than what I can offer myself.



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14 Nov 2017, 7:33 pm

Closet Genious wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
Closet Genious wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Huh? What did she do anything wrong?


She has aspergers(low functioning even), but won't date a guy with aspergers.


And? Maybe someone with another disorder will want to date her.

Letting it dent your ego is a bit sad.

She should probably lower her standards if she wants some success, but it’s very similar to the 10000 threads here created by males, definitely no worse.


I think you're projecting a bit here, but it must feel good for you to finally let off some steam.

The difference is this: I'm not a hypocrite.
I don't expect something more than what I can offer myself.


Maybe she has other things to offer that make up for low functioning autism. I mean autistic people shouldn’t have to want to date each other. You don’t always want to date someone with the exact traits you have.

If I dated someone exactly like me it likely wouldn’t work.