Madonna's confession about fat men
I don't understand it either. What difference does money, or objects, make if you don't even like the person, man or woman? But then again, I'm not particularly materialistic, and independence is important to me (because I find it so hard). I would be ashamed to just take the money some man had earned instead of me, living off him like a parasite.
I think it depends on the individual, for fat guys. Some big dudes I find very attractive. I saw some guy the other day who probably weighed three times as much as I do, and found him attractive, because of how he carried it off. The way he did it worked.
I wouldn't go around bandying blanket terms like "fat guys are unattractive."
Madonna just came across as bitchy and stuck up, thinking she's hot sh!t with that comment, in my opinion.
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I don't understand it either. What difference does money, or objects, make if you don't even like the person, man or woman? But then again, I'm not particularly materialistic, and independence is important to me (because I find it so hard). I would be ashamed to just take the money some man had earned instead of me, living off him like a parasite.
I think it depends on the individual, for fat guys. Some big dudes I find very attractive. I saw some guy the other day who probably weighed three times as much as I do, and found him attractive, because of how he carried it off. The way he did it worked.
I wouldn't go around bandying blanket terms like "fat guys are unattractive."
Madonna just came across as bitchy and stuck up, thinking she's hot sh!t with that comment, in my opinion.
Yeah I mean if you really like a guy the sex will work out..like is she a skeleton, my boyfriend is much larger than me but he's never in danger of like squishing me to death, I mean is she a skeleton? who can't hold off any weight from her partner during sex. Like sure my boyfriend makes sure not to squash me but I still have some body mass of my own so I don't always need to be on top but sometimes we like it that way. but its not an issue of not being able to do it any other way. And I am tiny he's like close to 6 ft and proabably at least 160 pounds but probably more I mean at least twice my weight and we have sex just fine.
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^ Yar, and what's wrong with a woman on top? It's much easier for a woman to orgasm on top, I'm told, because she can manipulate angle and speed to suit herself, using her partner's pubic bone to achieve stimulation of the correct areas. On the bottom, not so much.
I suppose it depends on individual preference, but many people's perceptions of a woman on top and man on the bottom (taking heterosexual sex just as an example, given Madonna's) being undesirable is based on sexism, not on anatomy.
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Madonnafail is no example of my relationship....OMG he has to be so skinny' doesn't fit into my taste so screw anyone here trying to tell me I have the taste of madonna screw that kind of relationship and quit telling me that is how I am just because I have a vagina.
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I suppose it depends on individual preference, but many people's perceptions of a woman on top and man on the bottom (taking heterosexual sex just as an example, given Madonna's) being undesirable is based on sexism, not on anatomy.
I don't see the problem, like I go on top with my boyfriend sometimes because we like to do that...I just don't get how people find things like that so weird. I mean a lot of guys like if a girl will go on top sometimes and then half as many wil call any girl/woman who does that a 'slut' while they go sleep with 5 other 'sluts'.
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I don't understand it either. What difference does money, or objects, make if you don't even like the person, man or woman? But then again, I'm not particularly materialistic, and independence is important to me (because I find it so hard). I would be ashamed to just take the money some man had earned instead of me, living off him like a parasite.
I think it depends on the individual, for fat guys. Some big dudes I find very attractive. I saw some guy the other day who probably weighed three times as much as I do, and found him attractive, because of how he carried it off. The way he did it worked.
I wouldn't go around bandying blanket terms like "fat guys are unattractive."
Madonna just came across as bitchy and stuck up, thinking she's hot sh!t with that comment, in my opinion.
Yeah I mean if you really like a guy the sex will work out..like is she a skeleton, my boyfriend is much larger than me but he's never in danger of like squishing me to death, I mean is she a skeleton? who can't hold off any weight from her partner during sex. Like sure my boyfriend makes sure not to squash me but I still have some body mass of my own so I don't always need to be on top but sometimes we like it that way. but its not an issue of not being able to do it any other way. And I am tiny he's like close to 6 ft and proabably at least 160 pounds but probably more I mean at least twice my weight and we have sex just fine.
You bf isn’t fat then, he’s under weight. A guy who’s 6’ should be 180 to 200. I’m 6’3” and 257 pounds. I’m bigger but there’s guys shorter then me that are over 300 pounds.
So if what you gave is right yiur guy isshould be thin.
Anyways I was with a thin girl once, the one who tricked me into one night stand, she complained cuddling hurt her. Had to be careful while cuddling, hugging and sex. I dont know if that’s all thin women or just her, but bigger women never complain of pain. She was the only person I had sex with. So while I find thin women sexually more attractive I don’t really want a relationship with a woman I’m constantly having to be careful not to hurt.
I suppose it depends on individual preference, but many people's perceptions of a woman on top and man on the bottom (taking heterosexual sex just as an example, given Madonna's) being undesirable is based on sexism, not on anatomy.
I don't see the problem, like I go on top with my boyfriend sometimes because we like to do that...I just don't get how people find things like that so weird. I mean a lot of guys like if a girl will go on top sometimes and then half as many wil call any girl/woman who does that a 'slut' while they go sleep with 5 other 'sluts'.
I dont know if it’d had improved with more sex, but with her on top I cam too fast, but me on top I could slow down to stop from coming too soon. Ive read doggy style is most best for women cause it inablee more penetration and something to do with the clit.
Don’t most people do a lot of different positions throughout their relationship? If not I could see how only one position would lead to boring sex life. Sadly I never experience sex again and never got to experience good sex, love making etc.
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Hey guys,
Let's be careful of discussions revolving around sex that happen outside of the Adult Forum.
If you want me to move it there, I will, but if it stays in L&D then we need to tone it down.
Thanks.
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