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01 Dec 2017, 9:17 am

Kiprobalhato wrote:
drunk people often say things they don’t mean.

In vino veritas....


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01 Dec 2017, 5:55 pm

I've gotten many mean comments from girls due to my "effeminate appearance."

Those chicks are rude and immature.

Ignore them.


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04 Dec 2017, 1:56 pm

Seems like all these rude women you talk about are in pubs. Go somewhere else.



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05 Dec 2017, 5:54 am

Dating in Pubs are like dating in dating sites: SO many males, and SO few females. Aka Sausage fest.

Except there's alcohol in the formula and real dangers for the women (ie. pills in drinks..etc), so you will find a mix of extra wariness and inflated ego.



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05 Dec 2017, 6:15 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Dating in Pubs are like dating in dating sites: SO many males, and SO few females. Aka Sausage fest.

Except there's alcohol in the formula and real dangers for the women (ie. pills in drinks..etc), so you will find a mix of extra wariness and inflated ego.


To be fair, not doing well in a male-dominated place doesn't mean you'll magically start doing well when the statistics are put in your favour.



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05 Dec 2017, 6:23 am

Sabreclaw wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Dating in Pubs are like dating in dating sites: SO many males, and SO few females. Aka Sausage fest.

Except there's alcohol in the formula and real dangers for the women (ie. pills in drinks..etc), so you will find a mix of extra wariness and inflated ego.


To be fair, not doing well in a male-dominated place doesn't mean you'll magically start doing well when the statistics are put in your favour.


No, even most of the socially successful men would fail in sausage fest scenarios.

The thing is, the men would end up relying on pubs/apps is the symptom itself of a greater problem (poor social life, poor social skills...etc)



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05 Dec 2017, 9:01 am

Jamesy wrote:
This drink girl handed out her handbags too some of my friends and she was about too give it too me and she then said "I don't trust you you're a weirdo " and then gave the bag too one one of my friends.

A lot of women in particular have not been very nice too me.

How can I change my image then?


Don't change your image. Choose nicer people to stick around with.

Unless of course, you really think there are things which should dramatically change. In that case we need more than a few lines about yourself to know what's wrong and express any opinions.



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28 Jan 2018, 5:52 am

Who cares what they think, f**k them!