AspieOutlaw89
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Location: The Bronx,NY,USA,by way of aspergia
01 Feb 2018, 5:09 pm
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Treat yourself : buy that one thing youve wanted for a while. Heck buy a new wardrobe or treat yourself to the deluxe barber treatment. The spa
Throw a party- its fun get your other friends who are outa luck. It could be fun
Veg out on the couch - binge or marathon something from the couch.
Do something your ex hated - s
Make it a bro night ! - you and the bros concentrate on fun and hijinks
Get outa town - literally
Pick up a hobby
Treat it as a typical work day
Hang with you fam
Chat online
Start a online dating account
Yoga lesson - mens health recommended this
Rearrange your room
Donate your time - any charity will do.
Meditate on the whys, a little self pitty helps us grow
"Embrace being alone" - gonna blush and walk away
Read
Send an anonymous gift to another single
Hit the gym
Take yourself on a dream date or dream dinner at a reaturant. Wine tasting fun
Eat
Sleep
Plot world domination - buzzfeed recommended it
Throw a anti vday bash
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And now the counter items....
(These items im not listing in the main due to issues
V day is full of lonely people. Alot of mags say its "easy pickings" and it cuts both ways. to both genders. Im not endorsing it at all. Yes meeting people is great but wheres the honor in rebounders, the super desperate, the super vulnerable.
Rolls eyes again your free to add to this list i hope someone finds ideas
become a plushie.have wild,rough sex with giant teddy bears,as well as giant stuffed tigers.i'll be doing all of it really,really,soon.it'll freak the daylights out of family & friends,but it's worth it
goldfish21
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Location: Vancouver, BC, Canada
01 Feb 2018, 5:14 pm
My party promoter friends organization's acronym is "VAL" so they usually throw a "VALentines" gay dance party in a warehouse. Their party spot suffered damage from some arsonist recently so I dunno if they're doing that this year. I'm not sure if it's super hookup oriented like some of their party themes or if it's just a dance party that's somewhat hookup oriented. Either way, I think it's neat for whoever's single (or not, who cares?) and wants to go party it up & dance to dj's until late night instead of sit around feeling left out of this Hallmark holiday. I've never gone as I haven't been interested in partying that time of year. But I think it's great for those who're in the mood to party.
Chances are good that there are anti-valentines singles parties thrown in cities all over the place, gay or straight, and anyone in the mood to go party that night can find one to attend.
*shrug* This year valentine's feels so "meh, whatever, who cares?" compared to other years where it's bothered me a bit being single. This time it's more likely that I'll stay in and read a book or something, perfectly content to do so. Having long term goals to focus on that are far more important to me than ever having a relationship is such a blessing as I can very easily look passed my single status and towards my goals & not really care if I ever meet someone along the way.
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goldfish21
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07 Feb 2018, 12:18 pm
Personally, I think that we should all celebrate Lupercalia instead; strip naked, oil our bodies, don a wolf skin, get roaring drunk and fornicate for 72 hours.
I'd find that infinitely preferable to a smarmy card, a handful of dead flowers, and a dreadfully overpriced meal at a pretentious overrated restaurant.
I'm pretty sure you just described what my party promoter friends' valentines gay warehouse parties are like..
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