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11 Mar 2018, 8:09 am

Isn’t it great when people decide for you what you want to hear, refuse to tell you the truth and blame you for it? :D


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11 Mar 2018, 10:04 am

yellowtamarin wrote:
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The last thing I feel like doing right now is making a woman happy. I know what it takes to make a relationship work and I'm not doing it. Everyone else can tell women what they want to hear and work around their schedule, but I'm not. If a woman comes along and pursues me, fine, I'll go along with it, but my days of going out of my way for women are over.

Those things wouldn't make a relationship with me work. Tell me what I want to hear? Hell no, tell me the truth please. Work around my schedule? Meh, you do your thing and I'll do mine, and we'll do stuff together when we want to, and can. Go out of your way for me? No thanks, it doesn't make me feel good when people put my interests above theirs.

I think you mean you don't want a relationship with a particular type of woman. That is, the type you have described.


The average woman likes to take pictures of herself. It isn't worth the effort to find the few who don't. Women are one of the casualties of social media.


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11 Mar 2018, 1:17 pm

Buc wrote:
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Buc wrote:
The last thing I feel like doing right now is making a woman happy. I know what it takes to make a relationship work and I'm not doing it. Everyone else can tell women what they want to hear and work around their schedule, but I'm not. If a woman comes along and pursues me, fine, I'll go along with it, but my days of going out of my way for women are over.

Those things wouldn't make a relationship with me work. Tell me what I want to hear? Hell no, tell me the truth please. Work around my schedule? Meh, you do your thing and I'll do mine, and we'll do stuff together when we want to, and can. Go out of your way for me? No thanks, it doesn't make me feel good when people put my interests above theirs.

I think you mean you don't want a relationship with a particular type of woman. That is, the type you have described.


The average woman likes to take pictures of herself. It isn't worth the effort to find the few who don't. Women are one of the casualties of social media.


^ So do men.


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11 Mar 2018, 4:28 pm

Buc wrote:
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Buc wrote:
The last thing I feel like doing right now is making a woman happy. I know what it takes to make a relationship work and I'm not doing it. Everyone else can tell women what they want to hear and work around their schedule, but I'm not. If a woman comes along and pursues me, fine, I'll go along with it, but my days of going out of my way for women are over.

Those things wouldn't make a relationship with me work. Tell me what I want to hear? Hell no, tell me the truth please. Work around my schedule? Meh, you do your thing and I'll do mine, and we'll do stuff together when we want to, and can. Go out of your way for me? No thanks, it doesn't make me feel good when people put my interests above theirs.

I think you mean you don't want a relationship with a particular type of woman. That is, the type you have described.

The average woman likes to take pictures of herself. It isn't worth the effort to find the few who don't. Women are one of the casualties of social media.

Sure, I guess if you don't put time into finding someone, you have more time to make posts in a love and dating forum about how it's all pointless. That seems much more productive. /s



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11 Mar 2018, 4:58 pm

Brushing my cat is more productive than trying to find a woman who doesn't like taking pictures of herself. NTs can have the selfie chics.


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11 Mar 2018, 6:09 pm

yellowtamarin wrote:
Buc wrote:
yellowtamarin wrote:
Buc wrote:
The last thing I feel like doing right now is making a woman happy. I know what it takes to make a relationship work and I'm not doing it. Everyone else can tell women what they want to hear and work around their schedule, but I'm not. If a woman comes along and pursues me, fine, I'll go along with it, but my days of going out of my way for women are over.

Those things wouldn't make a relationship with me work. Tell me what I want to hear? Hell no, tell me the truth please. Work around my schedule? Meh, you do your thing and I'll do mine, and we'll do stuff together when we want to, and can. Go out of your way for me? No thanks, it doesn't make me feel good when people put my interests above theirs.

I think you mean you don't want a relationship with a particular type of woman. That is, the type you have described.

The average woman likes to take pictures of herself. It isn't worth the effort to find the few who don't. Women are one of the casualties of social media.

Sure, I guess if you don't put time into finding someone, you have more time to make posts in a love and dating forum about how it's all pointless. That seems much more productive. /s


^ This.


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11 Mar 2018, 6:16 pm

Buc wrote:
Brushing my cat is more productive than trying to find a woman who doesn't like taking pictures of herself. NTs can have the selfie chics.


I’m curious at this point: what’s so bad about women who like taking pictures of themselves?


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11 Mar 2018, 6:28 pm

It's hard to take someone serious when they take pictures of themself.


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