cberg wrote:
I don't see how any of that is off topic. People in relationships vent about the everyday between each other all the time, why are you saying it's weird for singletons to do the same? Absent a SO to talk to we've still got the internet
I don't think this forum should alienate anyone, especially considering the terms of use nobody else reads. All kinds of people come here for help or encouragement but this just reinforces the same inequity we're all looking for relief from.
I'm not saying it's off-topic. I'm not saying it's weird. I'm not trying to alienate anyone.
I'd like to be able to offer my insight, help, advice, etc. to whoever I can. That's why I'm in here. When people post essentially that no advice will work, because nothing will work, then I'm genuinely curious as to why they have come here, an advice forum, to say that.
If I take it literally (which I try not to despite that being my default interpretation), then it seems like a shutdown, an indication that I should no longer engage in conversation with this person in this forum, because if there really is no hope then continuing to talk about it is surely fruitless.
But I don't want to just take what these people say at face value, because I suspect they don't really want to be ignored here. So instead I ask, what do they want?