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AngelRho
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16 Apr 2018, 11:01 am

Zooey Deschanel was absolutely AMAZING in (500) Days of Summer.

Guys, seriously..if you’ve never seen that movie, you absolutely must see it. You should own it. Watch often. Take notes. Don’t be that guy.



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16 Apr 2018, 12:05 pm

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If she agreed to go on one date with me, and friendzoned me after that, it would be easier for me. I would see it as more fair. Not allowing even one date - after knowing each other for many months - is what I saw as a bit unfair and harsh.




That is not how things work, if she was not interested in dating you...then she had no reason to go on a date with you. Its not harsh or unfair sounds like she wasn't interested in anything beyond platonic acquaintanceship or friendship. That wasn't enough for you so you acted disrespectful and obnoxious and it pissed her off to the point she didn't even want a plutonic relationship with you.


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16 Apr 2018, 12:37 pm

Sweetleaf wrote:
Litvinski wrote:

If she agreed to go on one date with me, and friendzoned me after that, it would be easier for me. I would see it as more fair. Not allowing even one date - after knowing each other for many months - is what I saw as a bit unfair and harsh.




That is not how things work, if she was not interested in dating you...then she had no reason to go on a date with you. Its not harsh or unfair sounds like she wasn't interested in anything beyond platonic acquaintanceship or friendship. That wasn't enough for you so you acted disrespectful and obnoxious and it pissed her off to the point she didn't even want a plutonic relationship with you.

“Plutonic”? You mean beyond death, or extreeeeeeeeeme long distance? :lol:



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16 Apr 2018, 5:40 pm

mh i think autistic women tend to appear more childish which may appeal to certain guys. (by childish i really mean quirky but people might see it as childish because it doesn't conform to the expected behaviour)


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16 Apr 2018, 5:46 pm

Gallia wrote:
mh i think autistic women tend to appear more childish which may appeal to certain guys.
My 1st girlfriend kind of was & she was also kind of manic due to bad ADHD. I thought a lot of her behaviors were funny & cute. I also really related to her cuz I'm not mature either(even less so back then) & have ADD(nonhyper ADHD)


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16 Apr 2018, 6:14 pm

nick007 wrote:
Gallia wrote:
mh i think autistic women tend to appear more childish which may appeal to certain guys.
My 1st girlfriend kind of was & she was also kind of manic due to bad ADHD. I thought a lot of her behaviors were funny & cute. I also really related to her cuz I'm not mature either(even less so back then) & have ADD(nonhyper ADHD)


yup bad adhd will make you look pretty crazy lol


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16 Apr 2018, 6:36 pm

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I have seen a number of your pics that you have posted. And you are rather cute and attractive .
Don't know about the manic and pixie part since I haven't seen you in person. And from your posts about your autistic special interestscombined with your looks I can well imagine someone finding you "adorkable" (as Daschanel described her TV character).

So.....

The doctor has bad news! You have just been diagnosed with terminal cuteness! :(

Based on the pictures you’ve seen, do you think people would see me as adorkable based on my appearance or just my weird interests?

The combination.



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16 Apr 2018, 8:04 pm

naturalplastic wrote:
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naturalplastic wrote:
I have seen a number of your pics that you have posted. And you are rather cute and attractive .
Don't know about the manic and pixie part since I haven't seen you in person. And from your posts about your autistic special interestscombined with your looks I can well imagine someone finding you "adorkable" (as Daschanel described her TV character).

So.....

The doctor has bad news! You have just been diagnosed with terminal cuteness! :(

Based on the pictures you’ve seen, do you think people would see me as adorkable based on my appearance or just my weird interests?

The combination.

So does my appearance communicate any dorkiness? I look quite a bit different since I posted my pics here. I have short brown hair now.



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16 Apr 2018, 8:17 pm

Your appearance by itself does not. Its the combination of your oddness and your cuteness. But that's just my subjective opinion based on your old pictures.



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18 Apr 2018, 12:00 pm

They no doubt create this idea about you in their head and grow infatuated with it and your looks rather than you.
I consider that to be normal with most people, however.

And yes, the ego will often dictate that whoever someone fancies will be of the sexual orientation that fits the admirer.


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