Men and Woman aren't compatible. How to find a compromise?

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ok actually i feel i can't express myself well... but like, how do people end up in good relationships? how woman deal with the fact that man are often less emotional and feel attraction towards other woman/??

he seemed to have a bit of impersonal understanding of sex, as it he did it because he needed to but it was quite unrelated to me. i feel a lot of guys have it. while for me, it was deeply connected to the person i was having sex with. it hurts me a lot to feel that we just had sex because i was an option available and if there was other option he would go for it?? ok it doesn't mean that on practice he would have sex with whatever person but in his way of thinking, this was a plausible thing.

he also had an idea of love as an strong feeling that just happen and last only while this feeling goes, and it's going to fade at some point. while i feel it has a lot to do on choosing to be with someone and actually compromising a lot of stuff to maintain it. it was very strange with us because he said that his feeling for me had come and go many times and it seem that i should learn how to deal with it?? but i couldn't understand how it worked and couldn't predict it. it was very stressful.