No and no lol, I was skinny when I met my AS husband and I thought I had confidence, I couldn’t have had much, as I felt so put down with his constant criticism, this was before his diagnosis. We have been together 18 years and I am now overweight. I am more confident in myself more than I have ever been, due to me being stronger, living with a AS does nothing but make you stronger.
It is not to do with size, it is more of a mental issue.