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How important is "Risk Factor" when guys ask girls out?
Very important, I need to see them take a chance, a blind leap of faith. It's the only way. 0%  0%  [ 0 ]
Important: It's definitely a positive indicator 50%  50%  [ 1 ]
Not important 50%  50%  [ 1 ]
Negative: Trying to make a move when there are no signs of interest just makes guys appear dumb & desperate 0%  0%  [ 0 ]
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SSJ4_PrestonGarvey
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23 May 2018, 4:03 pm

hurtloam wrote:
If I think someone is into me and he doesn't ask me out I then re-evaluate the situation and think, "oh well, he must not fancy me after all." And move on. Not because he didnt take a "risk", but because I can't waste my time on someone who doesn't seem to be interested in taking things further.

If he surprised you later would it be too late. What if he is a guy who is interested but goes at a slow pace?


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23 May 2018, 4:23 pm

SSJ4_PrestonGarvey wrote:
hurtloam wrote:
If I think someone is into me and he doesn't ask me out I then re-evaluate the situation and think, "oh well, he must not fancy me after all." And move on. Not because he didnt take a "risk", but because I can't waste my time on someone who doesn't seem to be interested in taking things further.

If he surprised you later would it be too late. What if he is a guy who is interested but goes at a slow pace?


That would be fine by me, but the average NT would probably have found someone else by that point.