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20 Apr 2018, 1:59 pm
This is a serious question.
I wrote it in the OP:
Just something different from the same ol’ heteronormative stuff in this forum, or countless threads about not being able to get a date or get laid. Just a different POV and perspective - one that others could learn from, IMO.
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20 Apr 2018, 4:15 pm
Turns out it wasn’t too late to reply to that morning email after all. That’s the second time I’ve hooked up with this one - he’s loved though, house is in a different city.
And then I came out to my car to Two more offers from boys I’ve hooked up with once each. 
Must be something in the air.. like cannabis, most likely. It’s 4:20 so all of these gay boys who work evening service industry jobs are home smoking weed looking to get laid.
I’ve had my fair share for today (although, there’s always tonight..) and have plans to go see the premier of Super Troopers 2 with my stoner cousin who’s in town for a couple weeks. Appropriate release date for that movie!
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22 Apr 2018, 5:13 pm
Well at least you're getting some. I can get dates pretty easily, but they never lead anywhere after 1 or 2. My FWB disappeared so I now get nothing 
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22 Apr 2018, 7:32 pm
Yeah.. but I have the advantage of being gay and the fact that it’s really not that difficult to convince a horny guy to have sex, sooooo.. heh, I can hookup with someone almost 24/7 whenever I want.
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22 Apr 2018, 11:44 pm
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23 Apr 2018, 12:45 am
This is a serious question.
I wrote it in the OP:
Just something different from the same ol’ heteronormative stuff in this forum, or countless threads about not being able to get a date or get laid. Just a different POV and perspective - one that others could learn from, IMO.
What is it exactly that others could learn from the fact that you're getting multiple offers from other gay men?
That getting dates/hookups is far easier than many think it is. And also the process of getting those dates. And any number of other things people may be interested in learning, like how to go about making oneself more attractive, or how to communicate with people online, how to behave when meeting someone, how to ensure you keep yourself safe when meeting strangers you’ve chatted with online etc etc. There’s plenty that people can learn from others who do things if they want to learn. Also, my different perspective on these parts of life is a real world example of just how much different/better someone’s dating life can be, and maybe that will help change some other peoples’ minds and they might begin to believe that they, too, can in fact get themselves a date. Sure seems like a lot better influence than reading ever more tales from others who can’t dates.
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23 Apr 2018, 12:47 am
Someone told me that the bathhouse downtown gets VERY busy during lunch time because of all the guys who work in the financial district coming in to “blow off some steam.” I believe it - the source was reliable.
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23 Apr 2018, 1:42 am
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23 Apr 2018, 1:44 am
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23 Apr 2018, 1:49 am
It’s still active in my country, and very active in my city.
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23 Apr 2018, 1:53 am
This is a serious question.
I wrote it in the OP:
Just something different from the same ol’ heteronormative stuff in this forum, or countless threads about not being able to get a date or get laid. Just a different POV and perspective - one that others could learn from, IMO.
What is it exactly that others could learn from the fact that you're getting multiple offers from other gay men?
That getting dates/hookups is far easier than many think it is. And also the process of getting those dates. And any number of other things people may be interested in learning, like how to go about making oneself more attractive, or how to communicate with people online, how to behave when meeting someone, how to ensure you keep yourself safe when meeting strangers you’ve chatted with online etc etc. There’s plenty that people can learn from others who do things if they want to learn. Also, my different perspective on these parts of life is a real world example of just how much different/better someone’s dating life can be, and maybe that will help change some other peoples’ minds and they might begin to believe that they, too, can in fact get themselves a date. Sure seems like a lot better influence than reading ever more tales from others who can’t dates.
With all due respect I'd say comparing the hetero dating game and the gay dating game is comparing apples to oranges. Some similarities exist, sure, but I doubt you'd be having the degree of success you've been having if you were straight.
Your post was just about 3somes and hookups that you've had and turned down personally. Not much others can learn from that other than maybe it's easier to get hookups as a gay male.
I am a heterosexual male, yet I keep getting sex offers from gay men on dating apps - so yeah, obviously it's Light years easier for gay men to get sex and even relationships.
Are we gonna deny even that and pretend that it's not case??? (I know that women deny that they have it easier too, so yeah...we ended up pretending that it's all equal struggling you know, for PC and for avoiding to be called sexists, but come on....this too?).
I’ve already said, even in this thread, that it’s easier for gay men.
That doesn’t mean I don’t have anything to contribute to the forum/others in terms of general dating/communicating or hookup specific related info. Just because it’s easier for gay guys doesn’t mean I’m not particularly good at it all. Heck, there are apparently “incel,” gay men on these forums, as they’ve called themselves.
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