Being ghosted over skype freezing out

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hale_bopp
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11 May 2018, 3:17 am

She seems like a bit of a weirdo to be honest. Sounds like all she says is “what are you feeling?”

If being yourself wasn’t enough to make her stick around, best just forget it.

I stand by my thinking that you didn’t “cause” this.

She simply got cold feet and lost interest. It happens to me all the time when trying to make friends with people.

You’re all good. If such a silly thing would make her write you off, why try? If you got married and the TV broke would she walk out? Don’t try and pick it apart.

People do things for hundreds of reasons and often it’s never the one you would guess.



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11 May 2018, 6:30 pm

hale_bopp wrote:
She seems like a bit of a weirdo to be honest. Sounds like all she says is “what are you feeling?”


Well, it wasn't the only thing she was saying, I mean she did write several complete sentences about her own life and asked me some questions about me. But its true she said "what are you thinking" quite a few times.

hale_bopp wrote:
If being yourself wasn’t enough to make her stick around, best just forget it.


If being myself would have been enough to make most people stick around, then I wouldn't be single all the time would I. Or are you saying that, even though I am being myself, most people don't think thats the case?

hale_bopp wrote:
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She simply got cold feet and lost interest. It happens to me all the time when trying to make friends with people.


I just looked up an expression "cold feet", https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cold_feet Its a bit weird thats what they meant by it: I mean I get cold feet when I go skying. But anyway, did you mean the wikipedia explanation or something else? If you meant wikipedia one, why not discuss whatever she is uncertain about instead of just leaving?