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Thank you. I try. MGTOW are very anti women, equivalent of the extreme Feminist that hate men. Both just as bad.

I won't be vlogging about MGTOW again in the future, that's for sure

Update.

This man i've mentioned, got in touch, he told me that he'll find out whom to contact and will prove to people that he's genuine and is whom he says he is, he didn't mean to say when we met that he was 13yrs older or not mention the fact hes an uncle. He claims he gets things wrong and his sister told him not to mention her business, so that's why he didn't mention he's an uncle. He said he'll prove that he's genuine and contact the social, as when my mum spoke to him when she took my phoned and warned him away weeks ago, she told him she'll get the social and police involved.

I'm frustrated with the whole situation and stressed, i didn't asked to be approached or wooed online, i even offered friendship, he said it'll fizzle out and then we got close. I didn't asked for this or to get given such a hard time either. Difficult situation to be in.

Thank you. I do realistically and ideally prefer someone closer in age but then i grew attached to him. If he genuinely feels something for me like he say he does, he'll prove himself. You're right! he should've been completely honest from the start, i was with him, it got to the stage where he knew more about me then i did him. When my online friend died, he not bothered to message me to see how i was, i ended up doing more pursuing. He says he loves me and will prove that he's genuine, he has too, otherwise it's on record that i was a vulnerable lady pursued by a potential predator or catfish. He wasn't completely honest and basically because of this, messed up our chance of meeting anyway, unless he resolves it and we meet, it'll just come to an end otherwise and it'll be on record that he wasn't genuine and everything my parents have stated. Unless he proves he's genuine and explain the reason to them as to why he said he was 13yrs older and not 19 yrs older and then stated , he always said he was in his 40s but never his exact age , i told him, when we met , my exact age of 27, he never told me his exact age, when he said his sister had a partner but not actually married and the fact he's an uncle. Why not say that? he could said he has a sister and brother in law and he's an uncle. He says his sister doesn't want her business to be known, yet my mum can easily see her family plastered publicly on facebook? why should she know all about me then if i don't her, if my siblings was married or i was an auntie, i would say, not lie , not give out personal details until we know each other well and have met but not lie and not make out i'm not an auntie when i am or not say i'm so many years younger, then exact age ect. He promised me back at the end of April that he let me know how his appointment goes in regards to his health check up on something but then didn't and he got narky with me, despite promising me that he say how he got on. Yet he says i'm his "lover" Unless he proves himself and fix his mistakes and clear this up, seeing as he wasn't completely entirely honest, if he doesn't make an effort and put it right and it's got to come from him, otherwise it'll remain on record, Plus he flirts and compliments other ladies and did on there videos i found out, all the while he says, he was into me and talks about them in a flirty way, When i mention this, he doesn't validate my feelings nor apologises, he just says " i don't want to argue with you" and disregards me and ignores how i feel. Yet he used to text or message me quick enough for what he calls flirting (cyber sex) which i won't reciprocate it with anymore. Being berated and given such a hard time over it, my brother accusing me of wanting to be raped by some weirdo and the way this chaps been, it's turning me off now tbh. It got me so down and depressed that i had to email and speak to the Samaritans for some emotional support, as no one has helped nor supported me at all. It's diminished now, unless he tries to win me over and put wrongs to right, seeing as he gave everyone a reason to doubt him and not trust him in the first place, due to his behaviour and actions.I felt like he took me for granted, i've spent countless hours throughout the months of knowing him too, listening about his hobbies and interests, showing a genuine interest ect too ect. All those months and feelings involved and him approaching me, it was all for probably nothing.

Thank you all for the replies.