Depression and alcohol abuse. Tips

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goldfish21
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12 Jun 2018, 2:14 pm

sly279 wrote:
Well part of me wants to die, it seems the only escape from this hell given it’s very unlikely any woman will ever love me in time.


Or, instead of waiting around to die, you could spend your time improving yourself until women find you attractive enough to date.


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27 Jul 2018, 11:28 pm

I can speak from experience because I myself have struggled with substance abuse issues for 19 years. No-one could convince me to stop, no matter how much they begged and cried. I have been through an insanely number of rehabs, been homeless, did over a year in jail, frequented the pysch wards, lost my marriage and could not maintain employment and I still used drugs no matter what after all that. My advice is to leave him, it'll either make him change his ways or not. Remember the saying "You can only love another person if you love yourself". By doing drugs or drinking, that means he doesn't love himself in the way that would make a good relationship. I was married over 10 years and I put that girl through hell. I wished she would've left me early into it because it would've saved her from alot of sadness she experienced. There's no doubt that she has issues too but still, I did alot of dirty things when i was with her and I can't take anything back. The sad part is......I'm still doing drugs.


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