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03 Jul 2018, 3:12 pm

And yet self sacrifice is the ultimate expression of love for others & takes someone incredibly strong to do; hardly a pansy move.

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03 Jul 2018, 3:16 pm

it is when you're doing it out of fear.

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03 Jul 2018, 3:22 pm

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it is when you're doing it out of fear.

But it's fine if it's out of love for others & protecting them from the way that I am, then?

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03 Jul 2018, 3:26 pm

^ nope.

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03 Jul 2018, 3:32 pm

Why not?

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03 Jul 2018, 3:35 pm

"Protecting them from the way I am"

Are these adult men you're dealing with?
They need protection from you?
Really?

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03 Jul 2018, 3:59 pm

No one deserves to have their life negatively impacted by my ASD symptoms.

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03 Jul 2018, 4:11 pm

Blah blah blah, fear of rejection.
You think you're unworthy, no one deserves you.
So you sabotage yourself by being noble.
That way you can't be rejected because you've put yourself out of the running.

Good job.

At the same time you're treating everyone like the village idiot.
And making yourself a special snowflake.

I'm sure you wouldn't deny other autistic people love, yet you deny it to yourself, because you're obviously a special case.

Get over yourself, gf.

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03 Jul 2018, 4:22 pm

How do you figure I treat everyone like the village idiot?

I acknowledge that by the very definition of my diagnosis that I am the idiot & that others shouldn’t be burdened with the way that I am.

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03 Jul 2018, 4:39 pm

You're suggesting that people are so stupid they can't make their own choices.
You're making the choice for them.

There is no mention of a requirement to be an idiot in the ASD diagnostic criteria.
That is a self diagnosis based on your lack of self worth.

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03 Jul 2018, 4:42 pm

Goldfish, I think you are very noble.....although a relationship may have worked with your friend. You are an extremely kind person from what I see.

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03 Jul 2018, 4:56 pm

Raleigh wrote:

The terminology may be political correctness outdated like the word ret*d, but it doesn't change that the label "idiot savant," is used to describe people on the autism spectrum.

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03 Jul 2018, 4:59 pm

Pansies are tough flowers....too bad people have to use that as a term for coward.

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03 Jul 2018, 5:09 pm

I thought it meant "flowery"
"Showy"

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03 Jul 2018, 5:13 pm

Raleigh wrote:

I thought it meant "flowery"
"Showy"

No. It means coward/effeminate/faggy/weak etc.

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03 Jul 2018, 9:49 pm

If you’re a “pansy,” you let people take advantage of you.

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