I Met Someone

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We not talking anymore I’m talking to 3 guys, I was talking to 3, now it’s 2, I unmatched one, he didn’t take no for an answer One of them went offline, the other guy, he was busy working, he is a photographer, we going talk later.

I'm sorry this happened Kitty, but I'm proud of you for saying no and trusting your intuition.

Was it a design shirt?
Though even then “I like what I see” seems to be about your boobs, I’d never say that to woman I haven’t talked to a while and know she likes sexual talk.

Who looks at someone’s picture of their upper body and says “ I like what I see” except a perv?
He may be wanting a friends with benifits

Then again maybe if I was more sexual forward earlier on I’d have more luck 0.o

+1 ^

^ We don't know what he really said, she said:

Maybe he simply said 'you look nice in that photo', and not literally '“I like what I see”.

Only kitty can confirm what was the wording.

This was a different man that didn’t take no for an answer, he wanted me to meet him within one hour of meeting me, I told him no, he would not give up, so I unmatched him.

I’m talking with the other guy when I thought he stopped talking to me, I was wrong, he was very busy at work, I overreacted.

Thank You

This guy I’m talking to, he is a good guy, he was just being a a man, saying he is a a boob guy. He did not say ‘I like what I see’ He told me something else, something sexual, I liked It I must be crazy

I’m
Never they forward. Most women would reject s guy who tells them his a boob guy before they’ve dated.
I look at women’s boobs I’m s guy but I know not to be oblivious about it or tell them about it.

You’re an adult woman, and if you are into a mutually consent sexual flirting then there’s nothing wrong in that, double emphasis on Mutually consent.

Even though he’s nice, he could eventually ask you for more photos. It could even be the reason he’s on the dating website - to look for women to get photos from.

It reminds me of my ex boyfriend. He was nice, but kept asking me for photos. Before I sent any, he sent me videos and asked me if I looked like the women in them. It’s like it was all he wanted and all he saw me as. I accepted his behaviour because “he was nice.”

I think you're actually pretty sensible, Kitty.

I believe you wouldn't send naked photos of yourself to just any schmuck on the Internet.

Flirtation is cool; but when a guy, after a couple of conversations, starts asking for naked pictures, drop him like a hot potato.

But then....I know you're too sensible to fall for this sort of thing.

He didn’t asked for more pictures of me & he never asked for a naked picture. When we talking yesterday, I told him I fell out of my wheelchair, he was sweet & caring, he told me, get lots of rest so you can heal up.


If a guy stays online & doesn’t talk to you, does that mean he is talking to another woman?

I read that if you don’t close the app properly, it still shows you as being online even if you’re not using it. It can mean he’s talking to someone else, but it could be a friend/acquaintance he made there and not someone he’s interested in.

How can you close an app properly,I don’t understand? If he talking to another friend then why couldn’t he say hi & can we talk later.