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20 Dec 2018, 9:00 am

Buc wrote:
Strip club!! Strip club!! Strip club!! Strip club!!


There must be at least one single lonely stripper out there.
I actually had one hit upon me during a train journey, she'd just finished her shift with a colleague and they were both out of it on something or other, she was all over me but I was on my way to meet my then girlfriend so I was desperately trying to get rid of her as politely as possible because I really didn't want to step off the train and spot my gf with this stripper holding onto my arm. It's just typical isn't it, that sort of thing wouldn't have happened in a million years if I was single.



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20 Dec 2018, 9:51 am

How does he know he wants a relationship if he’s never tried strippers?


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21 Dec 2018, 2:02 am

I went on some random chat site to troll people. Almost immediately met a girl who I just clicked with. If she didn't live on the other side of the planet I'd ask her out. Oh well. Point is, it's basically pure luck.



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21 Dec 2018, 2:15 am

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I went on some random chat site to troll people. Almost immediately met a girl who I just clicked with. If she didn't live on the other side of the planet I'd ask her out. Oh well. Point is, it's basically pure luck.


Usually, when a man likes a woman online, he will like her offline as well - but the other way around is rarely the case.



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21 Dec 2018, 2:38 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Sabreclaw wrote:
I went on some random chat site to troll people. Almost immediately met a girl who I just clicked with. If she didn't live on the other side of the planet I'd ask her out. Oh well. Point is, it's basically pure luck.


Usually, when a man likes a woman online, he will like her offline as well - but the other way around is rarely the case.


Your proof of this being?



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21 Dec 2018, 3:02 am

Sabreclaw wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Sabreclaw wrote:
I went on some random chat site to troll people. Almost immediately met a girl who I just clicked with. If she didn't live on the other side of the planet I'd ask her out. Oh well. Point is, it's basically pure luck.


Usually, when a man likes a woman online, he will like her offline as well - but the other way around is rarely the case.


Your proof of this being?


Personal experience and tons of threads by other guys in relationship forums.



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21 Dec 2018, 3:48 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Sabreclaw wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Sabreclaw wrote:
I went on some random chat site to troll people. Almost immediately met a girl who I just clicked with. If she didn't live on the other side of the planet I'd ask her out. Oh well. Point is, it's basically pure luck.


Usually, when a man likes a woman online, he will like her offline as well - but the other way around is rarely the case.


Your proof of this being?


Personal experience and tons of threads by other guys in relationship forums.


Well that's why you date them early on after you meet them online, so you don't get oneitis over somebody you've never met face-to-face.



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21 Dec 2018, 3:49 am

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Forget that. An aspies best options are through work or hobbies/special interests.
Zero females at my workplace and any hobby/special interest I have that might have a group for it will also be a male-dominated space. So no options for me then?



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21 Dec 2018, 3:59 am

Sabreclaw wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Sabreclaw wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Sabreclaw wrote:
I went on some random chat site to troll people. Almost immediately met a girl who I just clicked with. If she didn't live on the other side of the planet I'd ask her out. Oh well. Point is, it's basically pure luck.


Usually, when a man likes a woman online, he will like her offline as well - but the other way around is rarely the case.


Your proof of this being?


Personal experience and tons of threads by other guys in relationship forums.


Well that's why you date them early on after you meet them online, so you don't get oneitis over somebody you've never met face-to-face.


Yup, exactly.



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21 Dec 2018, 5:37 am

I had a married female friend of mine help me edit my Craig's List posting; not changing it substantively, but making it a bit more nuanced. It worked; we've been together for 7 years now. My mate says she would have never responded to my original draft.
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21 Dec 2018, 12:57 pm

Prometheus18 wrote:
You may be half right when it comes to meeting women in clubs and the like, but there must, one assumes, be at least as many decent women elsewhere as men. Join a sports club, get a job, volunteer, join book clubs, wine clubs and so forth - these are the places you'll find decent women.

Not in Los Angeles, this is the problem no decent women on the spot all of them are incompatible with long term relationship,
They dress like prostitutes and married to their career they want to be independent and meet random guys for sex on weekends in the bars and clubs. I worked as taxi driver for years i know this type when i see them.

This is why i am trying to find decent women somewhere else trough online without physically going there.

I am not good at street since i am aspie i can approach them no problem, but i have no clue what to say after conversation is initiated.



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21 Dec 2018, 1:03 pm

Raleigh wrote:
I'm not interested in dating, but in my experience sports clubs are the best way to meet people. I've met so many people in the 4 sports clubs I belong to who I still socialise with regularly.
You don't even have to play sport to join, a lot of them have a social only member option or you can take an admin role if you want.

Could you explain how sport club works in regards to meeting people, i been going to a 24 hour fitness and never meet anyone there, is sport club any different, how "social only member" works?



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21 Dec 2018, 1:15 pm

The Grand Inquisitor wrote:
interest groups or social groups

What are those could you give me few examples of ones you personally visited where do i find them?

Tried meetup.com and it sucked big time they have nothing in there that suits my interest or say they have it way in the wrong time like meeting in week from when i need it then in week i be doing something else and forget to attend it and got to wait another week its super annoying since i hate schedules.



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21 Dec 2018, 1:20 pm

Buc wrote:
Strippers have regulars. He should become one of those guys.

Hehe my exgirlfriend was a stripper actually no she worked in a club where guys pay for a date they supposed to buy girls a drinks and then they can hang rout with them in private room. Later on towards the end of our relationship she become a BDSM mistress. She is totally unsuitable for relationship. Drinking or smoking pot, dressing like slut, ordering food, having mess in her life, constantly running out of money but never listen to me when i try to help her, she wanted to do her own thing and have me paying for it.



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21 Dec 2018, 1:23 pm

BTDT wrote:
Meeting someone here may be a better option than any dating forum, provided you can move to where your partner lives.

Can you outline how to do it on the forum such as this one?



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22 Dec 2018, 3:34 am

OrdinaryCitizen wrote:
BTDT wrote:
Meeting someone here may be a better option than any dating forum, provided you can move to where your partner lives.

Can you outline how to do it on the forum such as this one?
I met both my exes & current girlfriend on forums. The ladder two were this one. I made LOTS of posts in the forums & me & my 1st girlfriend had some weird things in common; dyslexia, ADHD, & OCD. We really connected & we were online friends outside of the forum for a bit before she told me she liked me. I've made LOTS of posts in this forum about what I was wanting within a relationship, had to offer a partner, the way my personality is within a realtionship ect. My 2nd girlfriend replied about how she was looking for the same things & I asked if I could PM her. My current girlfriend sent me a PM after reading lots of my posts & she became very interested in me. She's pretty unique thou.


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