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25 Dec 2018, 1:10 pm

I would. I have.

I don't know why people here are conflating bisexuality and infidelity. A bi or gay person can cheat on you, but so can a straight person.

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25 Dec 2018, 4:26 pm

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karathraceandherspecialdestiny wrote:

I mean, unless you're a young teenager you expect most of your peers to have some relationship history before you

That isn't the case for a significant amount of us on here. Way to make adults with no relationship experience feel inadequate.

MOST, I said MOST.

If what I said made you feel inadequate, that is your problem. I said you expect MOST of your peers to have SOME experience, not ALL of them to have LOTS of experience.

Christ almighty. Get some help dude, if you're this sensitive about it.

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25 Dec 2018, 4:56 pm

I don’t conflate it with infidelity.

I’m just scared that a woman I’m seeing will, all of a sudden, lose interest in men, and discover they dig women, instead.

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25 Dec 2018, 4:56 pm

Look who's talking of over-sensitivity.... the irony.

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25 Dec 2018, 4:58 pm

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I did, so yes.

I did too, the nicest part that she liked to talk about the hot girls. No jealousy. :mrgreen:

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25 Dec 2018, 5:01 pm

I mean...it’s okay morally....but I still wouldn’t want a woman to lose desire for me because of her “discovery.”

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25 Dec 2018, 5:06 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:

I mean...it’s okay morally....but I still wouldn’t want a woman to lose desire for me because of her “discovery.”

It rarely happens.

Unless you're dating 18 yo girls.

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25 Dec 2018, 5:07 pm

Benjamin the Donkey wrote:

I don't know why people here are conflating bisexuality and infidelity. A bi or gay person can cheat on you, but so can a straight person.

I was thinking the same thing.

Neither do I think someone romantically interested in a certain person would suddenly decide they prefer the other gender.
I've seen that thing happen more with closet gay people e.g. Female marries male then leaves him for a female.

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25 Dec 2018, 5:12 pm

That’s what I’m saying. A closet gay lady all of a sudden wants to be uncloseted, inspired by love for a woman, thereby leaving me in the lurch.

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25 Dec 2018, 5:14 pm

^ but that's not an openly bi person.

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25 Dec 2018, 5:16 pm

I’d still be concerned, though.

She’ll be into me on Monday, lose interest in me by Wednesday, then desire me on Friday.

But I guess that’s the chance I gotta take.

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25 Dec 2018, 5:22 pm

If any partner, whether bi, gay or straight, is going to leave you for another person they obviously weren't that into you and you're better off without them, IMO.

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25 Dec 2018, 5:23 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:

I’d still be concerned, though.

She’ll be into me on Monday, lose interest in me by Wednesday, then desire me on Friday.

But I guess that’s the chance I gotta take.

That's not the way it works.
Do you as a straight man not feel attracted to other women?
If you're attracted to another women do you leave your wife and go off with them?

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25 Dec 2018, 5:31 pm

I get what you mean.

But I know cases of women and men deciding to leave someone because of a change of sexuality.

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25 Dec 2018, 5:35 pm

Anyway, what you decribed about your partner going hot and cold on you could describe the climate in most marriages. :mrgreen:

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25 Dec 2018, 5:42 pm

I guess so.

I would be frustrated be sexually fluidity, though.

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