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27 Jul 2019, 7:31 am

Fnord wrote:

[color=black]Yes. They exist. Such people are usually financially secure on their own, and don't mind footing the bill for something that is their idea. For example, whoever wants to attend a festival with you in Cannes should at least pay for transportation, lodging, and cost of admission for the both of you.

I think that is miss leading and vague. To begin with, the word exist can be said as "there is always a chance" and interpreted as "there is a realistic chance". Does a realistic chance exist for a mentally ret*d m***et with severe anxiety and high standards for women? Probably not. The answer to such a question is very context dependent.

Second of all you ignore the process involved, autistic people can feel like its a mission for them to leave the house, let alone approach people in public areas. With age and negative experiences they can lose their drive and become less attractive. Their social circle can look like an empty room with a digital device providing them an unstable link to strangers online, maybe some awkward acquaintances and a few old friends rather than 1000s of potential partners to choose from.

Relationships are becoming so hard to deal with that even NTs struggle with them on a regular basis.

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27 Jul 2019, 11:49 am

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... Women aren't looking for things "in common" with a man ... Women find men attractive based on a multitude of factors developed through evolutionary adaptation for the organism to optimize the survival and propagation of themselves and others (i.e eat, breed, help others do it too) ...

Do you state these claims as a woman, or as a man who is also a self-appointed 'expert' on women?

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27 Jul 2019, 12:29 pm

blackbaron1412 wrote:

Second of all you ignore the process involved, autistic people can feel like its a mission for them to leave the house, let alone approach people in public areas. With age and negative experiences they can lose their drive and become less attractive. Their social circle can look like an empty room with a digital device providing them an unstable link to strangers online, maybe some awkward acquaintances and a few old friends rather than 1000s of potential partners to choose from.

Lots of people in general including NTs connect with people online these days weather for friends or for romantic relationships. Look at how popular social media & texting is as well as online gaming. Dating sites are very popular these days as well(there's a whole bunch of em out there) & us Aspies tend to do better with online communication so meeting others online might be a good option for some of us. I met my current girlfriend & both my exes on forums.

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27 Jul 2019, 12:46 pm

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28 Jul 2019, 3:55 am

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The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

These women remind of my country's women.

Israel ... Lebanon ... it's not surprising that people from similar cultures in the same region have similar behaviors and attitudes.

A large part of Israelis came from Europe though.

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28 Jul 2019, 4:19 am

Honestly I rarely see things in common (interest-wise) in most couples I personally know ; the only striking thing I notice is looks similarity.

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28 Jul 2019, 4:21 am

Fnord wrote:

blackbaron1412 wrote:

Do you state these claims as a woman, or as a man who is also a self-appointed 'expert' on women?

What things in common you had between you and your wife before you get married?
I don’t mean at the present since naturally married people would acquire each other’s interest.

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