The Grand Inquisitor wrote:
sly279 wrote:
Apparently I’d look better with beard but it wouldn’t change anything for dating I’d still be poor.
I like shaving jave over $1000 in shaving stuff. Also beards are itchy
Most men with beards do still shave. Just rather than shaving the whole face, they shave in lines at the neck and cheeks to make their beards look more tidy and polished, and to avoid the "neckbeard" look. It's the difference between someone whose beard is intentional and someone who's just neglected to shave. I suppose if you like shaving though, you'd probably prefer to shave your full face.
I've had facial hair of some kind for the majority of my life since I've been physically capable of growing it, and I've never really had an issue with itchiness, but I know some guys do. Many bearded men use beard oil, which softens the beard, and nourishes the beard and the skin underneath. Beards tend to only be itchy in the beginning phases of beard growth, or if the skin underneath is dry and flakey, and using beard oil in either case will help alleviate the itchiness.I actually think the neckbeard look is kewl. Some of that may be cuz I went to a private high-skewl that had a dress code & I had to shave my face every skewl night all 4 of my high-skewl years which was a real pain cuz i have bad fine motor-skills & bad vision. Another reason is probably that I relate to neckbeard people more & I found they tended to be more sympathetic of me & my situation than people who are very clean shaven. Even when I was shaving every night while I was working, the clean shaven guys tended to look down on me cuz they were more successful with life. I also known more than a few guys who had the neckbeard look but had no problems getting women but they were still more accepting of me than the clean shaven guys who were more successful with life.
I grew a beard for a couple years after I graduated high-skewl cuz I hated shaving. I did trim it every now & then thou, usually when there was some special function that I had to look nice for like attending weddings(half my cousins got married in that time span). Nowadays I shave about 1ce every week or week & a half. My showers take about an hour when I shave due to how difficult it is for me which is some of why I don't shave more often. I'm also on some meds that reduce my facial hair growth alittle which I consider a good thing. My girlfriend prefers that I don't have a beard but she would still be attracted to me even if I did have one. She thinks the reason she prefers guys not having a beard is cuz of bad experiences she had with people who had beards.