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16 Dec 2019, 4:29 pm

Nobody is entitled to sex, but I have seen threads over the years on here where people were *assuming* that a guy had a sense of entitlement.

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16 Dec 2019, 4:44 pm

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Nobody is entitled to sex, but I have seen threads over the years on here where people were *assuming* that a guy had a sense of entitlement.

By the title of this thread and as a self-admitted incel, I suspect that entitlement may be a problem for the original poster.

It’d be handy if everyone with such traits would just put them in their usernames from the start. I’d imagine it’d save a lot of time and trouble for the mods.

I’m envisioning NaziGus, HomophobeJoe, and RacistSally...all gone in 5 minutes.

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16 Dec 2019, 4:44 pm

Fnord wrote:

I'm too easily distra DONUTS!!

Mmmm... Donuts...

Darn you diet!

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16 Dec 2019, 6:13 pm

This thread would obviously be a violation to the rules regarding personal attacks, but to be fair, I can see how your comments on that other thread would rub people the wrong way

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16 Dec 2019, 6:28 pm

The Grand Inquisitor wrote:

This thread would obviously be a violation to the rules regarding personal attacks, but to be fair, I can see how your comments on that other thread would rub people the wrong way

Meh.

That’s fine. I stand by what I said. If it rubs people the wrong way, so be it.

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16 Dec 2019, 6:40 pm

Twilightprincess wrote:

The Grand Inquisitor wrote:

This thread would obviously be a violation to the rules regarding personal attacks, but to be fair, I can see how your comments on that other thread would rub people the wrong way

Meh.

That’s fine. I stand by what I said. If it rubs people the wrong way, so be it.

I wasn't expecting you to retract it.

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16 Dec 2019, 6:52 pm

I think it’s rather laudatory to rub an incel the wrong way.

Perhaps I’ll make it a habit whenever I have a free Monday afternoon in the future.

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16 Dec 2019, 6:54 pm

Twilightprincess wrote:

I think it’s rather laudatory to rub an incel the wrong way.

Perhaps I’ll make it a habit whenever I have a free Monday afternoon in the future.

I never said it was just incels you're rubbing the wrong way.

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16 Dec 2019, 6:55 pm

Twilightprincess wrote:

Tim_Tex wrote:

Nobody is entitled to sex, but I have seen threads over the years on here where people were *assuming* that a guy had a sense of entitlement.

Sexysmudge.

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16 Dec 2019, 6:58 pm

The Grand Inquisitor wrote:

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I think it’s rather laudatory to rub an incel the wrong way.

Perhaps I’ll make it a habit whenever I have a free Monday afternoon in the future.

I never said it was just incels you're rubbing the wrong way.

That’s fine, too.

You can’t please everyone.

Just because someone disagrees with me or is rubbed the wrong way, doesn’t make me wrong.

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16 Dec 2019, 7:01 pm

smudge wrote:

Twilightprincess wrote:

Tim_Tex wrote:

Nobody is entitled to sex, but I have seen threads over the years on here where people were *assuming* that a guy had a sense of entitlement.

Sexysmudge.

Cute!

I can’t think of a good one for me.

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16 Dec 2019, 7:04 pm

Twilightprincess wrote:

The Grand Inquisitor wrote:

Twilightprincess wrote:

I think it’s rather laudatory to rub an incel the wrong way.

Perhaps I’ll make it a habit whenever I have a free Monday afternoon in the future.

I never said it was just incels you're rubbing the wrong way.

That’s fine, too.

You can’t please everyone.

Just because someone disagrees with me or is rubbed the wrong way, doesn’t make me wrong.

This is true.

What you said about entitlement is correct, but I don't think there was anyone in that thread that had expressed any sentiments that were oppositional to that view.

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16 Dec 2019, 7:13 pm

The Grand Inquisitor wrote:

Twilightprincess wrote:

The Grand Inquisitor wrote:

Twilightprincess wrote:

I think it’s rather laudatory to rub an incel the wrong way.

Perhaps I’ll make it a habit whenever I have a free Monday afternoon in the future.

I never said it was just incels you're rubbing the wrong way.

That’s fine, too.

You can’t please everyone.

Just because someone disagrees with me or is rubbed the wrong way, doesn’t make me wrong.

This is true.

What you said about entitlement is correct, but I don't think there was anyone in that thread that had expressed any sentiments that were oppositional to that view.

I really don’t want to go into what could be construed as attacking a member from a different thread. I was concerned as far as how his desire to “get sex” was expressed. It was kind of an icky way of putting it. It reduces a human being to a sexual object. Since he’s having trouble getting it, he said that it was “unfair because everyone deserves to be happy.”

If the conversation was more about love or relationships, it’d be a little different. Like I said on that thread, it’s not “unfair.” It’s our own responsibility to take care of that sexual need, not someone else’s. It also puts a lot of sexual pressure on a relationship that shouldn’t be there in the first place. It’s a problem that he’s implying that he can’t be happy without someone providing him with sex.

I wanted to express these nuances in a straightforward manner because I know, from experience, that such thinking could be bad in the context of a relationship.

I was blunt and straightforward to make things clear.

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16 Dec 2019, 7:48 pm

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A thread dedicated to all of my character flaws sounds like fun.

I’ll go first.

I’m really bad when it comes to procrastination, but I’m getting better at it. Writing to do lists always helps.

I suspect you of being a Steelers fan.

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16 Dec 2019, 7:58 pm

MaxE wrote:

Twilightprincess wrote:

I suspect you of being a Steelers fan.

I have many flaws, but I’m not THAT bad.

I’m so illiterate when it comes to football that I can barely call myself an American.

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16 Dec 2019, 8:17 pm

Twilightprincess wrote:

magz wrote:

Twilightprincess wrote:

I’m really bad when it comes to procrastination, but I’m getting better at it. Writing to do lists always helps.

Oh, you want to be better at it!
Writing to do lists as a form of procrastination? Hmmmm... :chin:

Yeah, I’ve been known to fill up the list with easy stuff, do those things, and then not do the one thing that I needed to. LOL

Lists were especially helpful, though, when I was in college and had various deadlines. My memory is awful, and I’d completely forget something important unless I wrote it down. I’d usually write it in a list format because I always had stuff to get done by Monday, Wednesday, or Friday for every class, and it’d help me figure out a study schedule.

With ADHD, I think I need to organize more than most people.

And, sometimes I forget to write it down.

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