Does this mean there’s something wrong with me?

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James is a slim guy.

A female friend probably wouldn’t share this with her buddies—if she was any sort of friend.

i have been working out at the gym a loy but very recently my weight has shot up too 160 pounds at 5ft7 3/4 which is nearly in the overweight range.


the other night at the bar i tried too get a 45 year old and 58 year old woman too sit on my lap but they both declined

Why are you ASKING woman to do this?

Older women don’t usually sit on guys’ laps.

[quote="kraftiekortie"]Why are you ASKING woman to do this?

Older women don’t usually sit on guys laps



because i saw the 58 year old lady sit on a 65 year old mans lap

Last edited by Jamesy on 20 Jan 2020, 1:30 pm, edited 2 times in total.

I'm guessing that's one of the reasons they don't want to...

Maybe they know the guy whos lap they are sitting on better than they know you?...Also though to me seems it would be inappropriate for a woman to just come and sit in a guys lap they don't know...what if the guy isn't ok with that? Seems like a bad idea to just assume someone wants sexual type touching.

I suspect younger women may not be so comfortable with a guy they don't know, saying 'can you sit on my lap' as well. I think if this happened to me while I was still single I would have declined as well, at best I'd just think it a bit too bold for my liking(as it would imply they might take things too fast) at worst I might have thought they were a creep.

The only time women have ever sat in my lap was from their own volition. I didn't invite them to do so, that might actually put them off if they aren't into you.